Rachel's Live journal

Feed the Hungry Children

2011-11-04T09:00:00.022+08:00

As I'm writing this blog post, my clock shows it’s now 12:13 am in the morning. It’s quiet and peaceful. The boys are sleeping soundly in their bed, all cuddle up and so at rest. But at the same time, a child dies from hunger in every few seconds. How ironic.

Recently, a friend shared this video on Facebook and I was badly affected by what I saw. I was weeping badly. I was very much emotionally disturbed. And, I showed the same video to Dylan. He started frowning when he saw the children lie helplessly on the dusty ground, and he started asking many Whys. I could see that he was puzzled and concern on why the children in the video were in such a bad condition.

We talked about what he saw and understood. How lucky he is to have hot meals served to him day in day out yet he would grumble or pick on his food. How fortunate he is to have clean cloths to wear, tv programs to watch, comfy bed to sleep on and many many more… while there are children out there going hungry, not knowing when is their next meal, or will there be any for them anymore.

I hope he knows and appreciate of what he has and being given. I wish he’ll become more selfless. And I hope he’ll be mindful of how fortunate he is.

On the 31st October 2011, the world population has reached 7 billion. Not something we should be celebrating about really. Out of this huge number, 1 billion people go hungry, which means 14% of our world population starve every single day. Alarming, I know.

This year, 6 million children will die from hunger related causes if we (YES, YOU & ME) don’t do anything about it.

Does this bother you? I do, and I hope you are too.

Some choose to dump millions of dollars to whip up a wedding of a century, some feast on exotic cuisine coupled with nice wine or champagne, some got sick of the variety of food they have and complains how ‘unfortunate’ it is…

With this intention in helping others, a group of fellow moms have come together to raise fund for this nonprofit organization - Children’s Hunger Fund. With US 5 cents, it’s enough to provide a meal to a hungry child.

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So I am appealing to you for your participation in this little fund raising activity. All you need to do is this:

1. Crop and paste any of this above information on your blog site, together with this logo (just right click and save image in your hard drive).

2. Appeal for friends and readers on your site to go directly to this page to make direct contributions. All it takes is US $5.00 for 100 meals for the children. Of course, it will be great if you can contribute more. You can also go to this page to make a direct contribution to areas that are most needed; like disaster relief.

3. Organise your own fund raising activity.

There are plenty of ideas that you can adopt to raise the funds;

- Bake sale
- Make and Sell a product
- Give up a birthday gift
- Lose weight by missing a meal and contributing what you might have spent on the meal to the Children's Hunger Fund

4. If you have a preschooler or a child who has learnt to save some money, talk to him/her to see if he can give a little of his money to help to feed hungry children.

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So many of us take it for granted that we always have a hot meal ready on our dining table for ourselves and our children and always have something to snack on whenever we are hungry. But the reality is not the same for many children around the world.

With each and every one of us to put aside a dollar everyday, with the accumulated amount in a week alone, lots of hungry children can be fed. And only when the children are fed, then will they have the energy to live, learn and be educated - this in turn equip them with knowledge to lead a better life, to walk out of poverty eventually.

Help us and Children’s Hunger Fund to show a child in some remote corner of our world that he / she is loved. Thank you.

Do drop me a note if you are interested to participate and will be putting this fund raiser activity up on your blog or FB page. My deepest appreciation and thanks in advance for your kind and giving contribution to Children's Hunger Fund!

Three Is Enough

2011-09-27T09:00:00.024+08:00

At first there was ONE, I met him 16 years ago. 5 years and 8 months ago, came another, which makes TWO. Life kind of took a turn and had quite a bit of bumpy rollercoaster rides. 2 years and 8 moths back, THREE joined in the line while hurricanes pay us a visit every now and then.

[The boys in the house]

If you were to ask me 10 years ago have I ever imagine what my life will be 10 years down the road, I’ll take it as you’re cracking a joke. I mean, come on, no one knows what happen next isn’t it? How am I to know that I’ll be bonded for life by the THREE? All Three of them are so dear and important to me.

At times, I do feel privileged for being the only female in the house. I’m not the kind of girl who played dress-up when I was little. Many uncles and aunties had mistaken me as a boy. I played guns and swords with my brother. I was not that feminine after all.

Hence when I got to know that my first child is a boy, I’m delighted. I could play rough and there’ll be no princess thingy and mood swings to deal with. When I was informed that my second child has a birdie, I had a teeny-weeny bit of disappointment in me back then. We did wish for a girl. But we are thankful to be blessed with two healthy chaps who have been spicing up our life.

[The old boy was ignoring the whining little boy, while the young boy was daydreaming away]

Life is wonderful!

And the thought of having another child (especially on the account of going for a girl) has faded.

Friends do ask me (still) if we’re planning for a third, or are we trying for a girl. The answer is NO and we believe it’ll stay in this way. With one old boy, and a young boy, plus a little boy – my life is fulfilling. There isn’t a need to ‘gamble’ for a daughter nor is there any holes to be fill in order to make my life anymore complete.

With a loving husband who dote on me and two sons who bring so much joy (plus frustrations too), I couldn’t ask for more. *grin*

So my dear friends, no more question on whether I am planning to get myself pregnant again! The answer will remains the same. *wink*

To me, Three is enough. And I’m happy with this arrangement. ^^

The Six & Three-To-Be

2011-09-21T09:00:00.015+08:00

Four more months, the boys will be six and three years old. Gosh, I’m kind of lost at the thought of it. I’m approaching the busiest month of every year – January.

Recently we had an outing (just me, Dylan and Devan while the daddy was at work), I had such a hard time keeping up with their pace! They were like fully charged bunnies running, hopping, skipping and moving non-stop. I was the extremely exhausted mother chasing behind while pushing a stroller and carrying a DSLR. What a day! And what a workout! I was practically flat on the floor when we reached home.

They, although often drives me mad, are the core of my life. Being the mother of these two boys is a huge blessing and I couldn’t ask for more (or maybe I could). ;)

The Six-To-Be has two of his milk teeth out – his lower left central incisor went missing after he came home from his school’s National Day celebration. Then it was his upper left central incisor that went all shaky and bleeding when he was having his dinner. He was in pain and wanted to visit the dentist. I bite the bullet and pulled out his bloody tooth with my fingers. *Gross* Within two weeks, he lost two teeth – something which we should experience when he’s six to eight years old (according to the health booklet). Hmm… he’s growth is obviously ahead of most of his peers and I’m not so thrill with it though.

He has been attending swimming lessons coming to a year now, and we’ve been facing with some challenges along the way. We don’t expect our boy to be good swimmer, nor do we wish to have him compete in competitions and bring some glory home. But he’s one hard shell to crack in overcoming his fear when in the water without his float board. To be honest, I’m losing the patience to talk him out of his fear. I believe for one to succeed in anything, one has to be determined and brave to face whatever obstacles that’s in the way. We as parent can only boost his confidence and give encouragement. Seeing him giving up so easily, I’m disappointed.

Still, we’re not giving up on him. I know he can, it’s just a matter of mind game and perseverance.

On the other hand, the Three-To-Be is still in his terrible two! Oh man, I do wish he’ll snap out of this phase soon. His tantrums are nerve breaking and he whines big time whenever he couldn’t get things the way he wants. And I’m one evil mother who doesn’t give in easily.

He’s one very affectionate boy and he knows how to get us to forgive him when he did some naughty stuff. He eats well, he sleeps well and he plays plenty, he’s one happy boy whose very obsess with numeric and alphabets too. And he’s toilet trained! Hooray! It was a short but chaotic period in the house where he had a number of accidents with his pee and poo. It was then that I found myself having a puppy instead of a child. *Laugh*

Everyday is a new experience filled with challenges and joy. It’s sweet and joyful when the both of them behave and play well together. It’s madness and hair-pulling moments when they don’t see eye to eye and simply refuse to share.

I guess this is what most parents are facing. Ya? Or am I the only one having all these?

Out of My Hibernation

2011-09-16T09:00:00.013+08:00

This space was left untouched for five months. I went into hibernation. And I missed a great deal of the blogosphere! I missed the blog hopping, leaving comments on the many lovely blogs I bookmarked and regularly visit. I missed blogging – did not journal down a single of the precious memories that took place in these five months. And I missed receiving those loving notes that friends would leave behind whenever they visit this lil space of mine.

So, FINALLY, all these Miss-es got me out of my warm and comfy cocoon! I went about doing up a new blog header, did some dusting and arranging here and there, and now I’m all ready to start blogging again. Yeah! Ahem, do you hear my engine roaring? LOL

Life has been busy (as always) – everyday’s packed with things to clear, issues to settle, fights to stop and commitments to fulfill. Every single day has been fruitful and satisfying. The boys are growing and eating well. The husband’s still trying his mighty best to get me to sleep early. And I’m always fighting against time to fulfill my mountain-high of duties, attending to the kids, running the household, having quality couple time with the husband and running my humble online store.

But life is good. The universe has been very kind to me. And I’m a happy person. *grin*

Although this space has been quiet for awhile, but I do know that some of you still pop by every now and then hoping to find a new blog post. THANK YOU! I’m back!

This month marks the third year of my blogging journey. And I’ll make sure the counting continues. *smile*

BULLIED By a 3 Years Old

2011-04-12T09:00:00.005+08:00

The victim was not Dylan, nor was it Devan. But ME! My goodness, I was attacked by a 3 years old boy.

My sweet hubby brought us to a new eating place over the weekend that serve nice food and provide great atmosphere. The restaurant wasn’t crowded and we had a nice cozy corner all to ourselves as we rest and relax while enjoying our meal.

Halfway through our dinner, I noticed there was a family seated near us but couldn’t see them as the partition was blocking our view. It was after a good 10 mins or so when a little boy started running around the place - barefooted. His parent was calling out to him (gently) to return to their table. But of course the little fellow ignored them and continued with his race in the dimly lighted restaurant.

Suddenly there was a loud bang from the floor near me that made me jumped. It was the little boy, on all fours, obviously had a heavy fall due to his wild horse racing and he probably deserved it. He didn’t cry, probably used to falls or he must be a real tough little guy. He smiled at me and got up to continue with his mischief. Although it was quite disturbing to have a wild kid racing around while we had two of our own to attend to, we chose to ignore that kid and hoping for the parent to handle their child before any nasty accident happen. The last thing we wish to witness was to see a bowl of hot soup over the boy’s head or he knock into one of the waiter holding a tray of dishes and glasses.

Anyway, the next thing I knew was being smacked real hard on my right arm! Ouch, it was a painful one. I was in shocked. The fact that I was smacked hard by a little kid was just a little difficult for me to digest. My hubby was surprised too and he could imagine how much force that little guy used to make the loud sound from my flesh.

And that monkey still had the cheek to giggle at me before he raced off from my side! Oh man, I was bullied by a little kid out of the blue!

What can I do? Or what should I do? Confront the parent for allowing their child to misbehave in the public and going around hitting strangers? Maybe I should have done that.

Due to my hesitation, we allowed the boy to strike AGAIN. This time, he casually walked over to the side of our table and dipped his right hand into my drinking glass! I was pissed! And I was sure he knew I was not very pleased with what he just did, for I saw a small fraction of worried look on his face. What he did was unacceptable, rude and ill-manner.

Dylan saw what happened and he too was puzzled why the boy did what he did and not being punished. And we took this chance to educate him.

Not long after, we saw a couple walking out of the restaurant, the boy was being carried by the husband. The parent had failed to control their child, allowing him to go around disturbing others (without the slight knowledge of it). If I had approached them to complain on their son’s monkey business, would they be apologetic and take discipline into action instead of thinking its perfectly fine for a child to treat all places like a playground? I’m not sure about that. They left the place before I could have the chance to speak to them.

But one thing for sure, my hubby and I are doing what a parent should do - To educate our sons the right values, the ability to conduct ourselves well and respect others.

I do hope the boy who bullied me do not get into any more trouble which was too late for regrets.

Dylan – He at 5 Year & 3 Months Old

2011-04-05T09:00:00.005+08:00

Yesterday morning, he came to my bedside to kiss me goodbye before leaving the house with his Papa to catch his school bus. After planting a light kiss on my lips, he said: “Mama, you continue to sleep some more ok?”

Isn’t it sweet to hear these words early in the morning? I was beaming.

Yet later in the day after he came home after his school, his nonsense gets the better of me, resulting in multiple times of scolding and naughty corners for the five years old. This son of ours, our first born, he has been getting on our nerves, while on some fine days he can be so sweet and sensible.

And the thing is, he behaves really well when being alone – like those days when his baby brother has yet arrive into our family. He can be such a sweet darling when he do without his aggressive questions and persistent requests. He’s been picky on his food lately, not wanting to take this and that from his plate and ended up being lectured by his parent for wasting food and how he was being ungrateful to be given enough to eat and drink while many others are starving in other parts of the world.

We might be too hash on him at times, hoping for him to behave himself on many occasions and being more sensible than behaving like a two years old instead. I guess, for a young boy like him, all he has in his mind is to play, play and play till the sun goes down and his last bit of energy drained.

He’s living according to this famous quote – Life’s Short, Play Hard!

Wishing For MORE Harmony

2011-03-29T09:00:00.006+08:00

It could be rather rare to have the brothers behaving well when near each other – for the elder one will be finding trouble for himself as he tired to disturb his younger brother in any possible way. The latter will yell, scream, and whine, making himself heard as a way to protest.

The elder wants the younger one to do this and that, while the young one has a mind of his own. The elder one wants to hold his brother’s hand, but the stubborn little one resist the idea. Off they will get into another argument which sends ‘electric waves’ through their mom’s head. There could be so much madness, especially when we were in our tiny home. The cries and yelling will circulate, bouncing between walls, creating a surround sound system. Man, we can literally go crazy!

They quarrel, they fight, they yell, they laugh, they do silly things together. Although most of the time they seems to be each other’s pain in the neck, they do love one another (at times). This brotherly thingy seems to have more or less settle into their system and they do miss each other’s company.

I do wish for more harmony between the both, at the same time be closely knitted and being each other’s best buddy till they grow old together. I wish I wish I wish…

His T.E.R.R.I.B.L.E Two

2011-03-04T09:00:00.002+08:00

When he couldn’t have things his way, he give us this – having it all out and lay flat, face down, stay still till we go up to him to give him the comfort he wants. By the way, in this photo he was kind enough to rest himself on a stone bench. On other occasions, he would settle on the spot… be it on a polished granite floor in a busy shopping mall OR a pavement along the roadside.

This boy was a different category from his elder brother who was rather tame, reserved and cautious at the age of two. He’s bold, wild and short-temper. Man, we’ve a wild pony here!

He’s in the want-to-do-it-all phase. He wants to switch on the light before anyone does, if not he’ll whine and whine and whine till we off it and carry him up to switch it back on. He wants to brush his teeth on his own, resulting in having him to eat up all the toothpaste before he ever gets any teeth brushed. He wants to push the stroller rather than sitting in it, kicking into people and we apologizing non-stop. How draining it is mentally and physically! These can be so nerves breaking at times too. It’s as if my child is having serious emotional issue – crying buckets this moment and laughing the next second…

Having to go through this the second time does make life a lil easier to handle. I had learnt not to jump at the lil boy (with 2 horns on his head) but to leave him alone to cool it off. He had realized that his tantrums don’t get him the results he wants (most of the time), leaving him to wonder off to find his next target.

That’s parenthood, most will say. And yes, I agree!

Our life is pretty great except for the few opera shows that pop up every now and then on a daily basis. Ha!

Dylan – His Lil Achievement

2011-03-03T09:00:00.004+08:00

Date: 10th Nov 2010 (Wednesday)

I HAVE to blog this down, in case many years down the road – when I’m old and forgetful… this blog post will serve its purpose to remind me of how proud I was when my soon-to-be five years old brought home his very first art competition prize - a nicely wrapped box with a big pink star on it.

I was surprised when he showed me the box after he got off the school bus. And I was thrilled to discover he had won himself a prize in the school’s annual art competition! Yay! I was grinning from ear to ear.

So it seems like my boy takes after me in the artistic way after all!

Although it was a consolation prize, but hey we got to start somewhere isn’t it? And Dylan has made his parent so proud of him.

Well done baby!

PS- A lil wish of mine – I wish to witness my son to go on stage to receive his award. (I’m sure to be all teary and emotional when that day arrive) ^^

Our H.A.P.P.Y Halloween

2011-02-15T09:00:00.059+08:00

Alrighty, this was a VERY much delayed post. It took me three months to get it up! I was busy with lots of things and was so caught up with my Scrappin’ Love, kids, parties, blah blah blah… BUT, I know, no excuse for being this lazy to blog!

Anyway, better to be late than never! *wink*

This is a fun post. If you decided to keep reading on, I’m sure you’ll be well entertain! *grin*

Two weeks before Halloween, I checked with Dylan what he wishes to dress up as. A pirate was what he wanted. Next I spent a week pondering whether to make the costume or to get an off-the-shelf kind… in the end, the daddy was tasked to source for the costume and he returned with two sets (a set each for Dylan and Devan). But the boys could not fit into them!

The pumpkin costume was way too short for Devan and the pirate one was too tight fitting for Dylan. The age indicated on the tag simply did not match with the measurements… argh…

I ended up altering the pumpkin costume and hunt for an alternative costume for Dylan. It was crazy I tell you - to look for replacement just hours before we headed down to Woodgroove Ave for our Halloween celebration!

And here we have - a smart lil wizard and a lil pumpkin patch! Aren’t they cute? Initially I wanted to dress Devan up as a lil mummy but hubby didn’t seems to like the idea of having his son being bandaged from head to toe with cotton mesh. Ha!

Happily we went down to Woodgroove Ave for our Trick or Treating. There we saw all kinds of figures, you name it we have it, from pretty goddess to scary-looking ghost, from monster to funny-looking walking shark. And we met the dragon again! The same one we saw during our last year’s Halloween when Devan was just a 9 months old baby.

Our wizard and pumpkin had fun collecting candies, especially for Devan as half the time he was very busy counting his treats and going through his colorful collections.

Oh, we came across a hunted-looking house too! How exciting!

We headed back after a fruitful Trick or Treating. Stopped by a shopping mall near our place for dinner and people was amazed when they saw the boys (still in their costumes). Some slowed down to take a closer look at them, some smiled seeing their cuteness and some even said “Trick or Treat, Happy Halloween!”

What a fun day we had! And am so looking forward to our next Happy Halloween!

Click HERE for our last year’s Halloween adventure.

KNOCKED OUT

2010-11-25T09:00:00.008+08:00

He took less than ten mouthful of his dinner before he finally knocked out in the feeding chair while munching, scratching his head and trying his very mighty best to keep his eyes open. But I guessed his eyelids were too heavy and the Z monster was too powerful to fight back.

After a long day of staying awake with only a 15mins power nap, he surrendered (at last).

And I got to have my dinner in PEACE! Although we did receive a few stares, as if telling us we were so mean to leave our child sleeping in such a manner. Oh well… no point waking him up when he was so tired. Plus he looked comfortable snoring and drooling in the high chair!

Conversation Between Pencil & Eraser

2010-11-12T21:00:00.005+08:00

Here's a meaning article forwarded to me from hubby.

We all started out as Pencil (now still are) and also Eraser (if you're a parent). *smile*

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Pencil: I'm sorry....

Eraser: For what? You didn't do anything wrong.

Pencil: I'm sorry cos you get hurt bcos of me. Whenever I made a mistake, you're always there to erase it. But as you make my mistakes vanish, you lose a part of yourself. You get smaller and smaller each time.

Eraser: That's true. But I don't really mind. You see, I was made to do this. I was made to help you whenever you do something wrong. Even though one day, I know I'll be gone and you'll replace me with a new one, I'm actually happy with my job. So please, stop worrying. I hate seeing you sad. :)
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I found this conversation between the pencil and the eraser very inspirational. Parents are like the eraser whereas their children are the pencil. They're always there for their children, cleaning up their mistakes. Sometimes along the way... they get hurt, and become smaller (older, and eventually pass on). Though their children will eventually find someone new (spouse), but parents are still happy with what they do for their children, and will always hate seeing their precious ones worrying, or sad.

This is for all parents out there......

NEW on the Menu at Sakae Sushi

2010-11-09T13:00:00.046+08:00

Food, I LIKE. Japanese Food, I LOVE!

I was invited by Sakae Sushi on their food tasting event and I was so glad I was there because the food was super duper delicious! Yum yum. Together with other Sakae e-Journalists/bloggers like me, we had a great time filling up our stomach.

Sakae Sushi has just lunched eleven new recipes in their already long menu list. So if you’re looking for some new food in town, remember to head down to the nearest Sakae branch! I’m VERY sure you wouldn’t be disappointed. *wink*

1. Maguro Carpaccio

A dish of thinly sliced half tuna with special sauce - coupled with thinly sliced onions, sprinkled with sesame seeds and a touch of mayonnaise.

My appetite was doubled with this first dish! The combination is marvelous! Honestly, I had my doubts before I tasted this dish because I’m not a big fan of tuna or for rare onions. BUT I finished everything and licked the plate clean! (erm… well, not that drama as in licking the plate, or rather what was left was some sauce)

2. Soft Shell Crab Salad

Mmmmm… what can I say, this is good! I heart soft shell crab.

The house salad dressing is just nice, not too heavy and not too watery. Soft shell crab coupled with avocado, tomato and fresh lettuces - A rich salad dish indeed.

3. Ebi Arare

Prawn tempura in sushi roll coated with rice crackers, topped with cheese mayonnaise - one of my favorite. And I’m sure my boy Dylan will love this!

4. Mushroom Kimuchi Tofu

Fried beancurd and assorted mushroom with kimuchi sauce. Another of my favorite! (oops, it seems I have some many favorites)

Firstly, I don’t take kimuchi on its own. But when made into sauce, it simply pumps my appetite to the max! I nearly ‘licked’ the bowl clean too. Ha!

For the next seven sushi dishes, they were presented as a Sushi Platter which made us all went WOW. Each of us was served with a platter each and we even had a little candle-lighting ceremony with one of the recipes – Sakae Candle.

5. Sakae Candle

I believe this dish can make it to the top and becomes one of Sakae’s signature dishes!

It’s a sushi consist of avocado, Japanese cucumber, crab meat, shrimp roe, codfish roe and mayonnaise. The sushi roll tower was then topped with a slice of salmon. The candle lasted for a good 3 seconds when lighted, although a little too fast but it would be a good idea to have this dish when someone is having their birthday!

This dish topped my list of favorites. *smile*

6. Aburi Salmon Teriyaki

Sushi rice topped with half broiled salmon with teriyaki sauce. Anything that has salmon in it, I LIKE.

7. Unagi Shitake Gunkan

Sushi rice topped with river eel and Japanese mushroom. A rich combination when coupled with sushi rice.

8. Salmon Mayo Mentai Inari

Sushi rice topped with salmon with codfish roe and mayonnaise. This is a rich and filling dish, once sent into the mouth the creamy taste might be overwhelming for some. But I like! *wink*

9. Hotate Mentai Maki

Sushi roll coated with rice crackers, topped with scallop and codfish roe. Although I don’t really fancy scallop, this dish tasted good.

10. Unagi Cracker Mentai

Sushi roll coated with rice crackers, topped with river eel and mayonnaise. Tasty!

11. Hotate Sushi

Sushi roll coated with rice crackers, topped with half broiled scallop and lobster salad. This is at the bottom of my favorite list. Personally I find it too rare to my liking.

Okay! After seeing the photos of all the mouth-watering food, you better make a trip down with your love ones to try them out!

Our Family Malaysia Trip – 30th Sep to 4th Oct 2010 (Part 4)

2010-11-03T09:00:00.035+08:00

3rd October 2010 (Sunday)

This post is the shortest among the rest, reason being – I was fully occupied with shopping and having Devan sticking to me most of the time, resulted having me not taking much photos.

We started the day with a heavy breakfast and followed by a trip to the Berjaya Times Square. This shopping mall was huge! And we practically spent the whole morning and afternoon in it till we decided to head back to our service apartment with the boys while my parent continued.

The thing is, we did not cover the whole of the shopping mall for it was way too big for us and our feet were aching from all the walking. There was even an indoor theme park – Cosmo’s World, with lots of kiddy rides and thrilling roller coaster. No photos were taken when Dylan was playing in there because it was my dad who accompanied him in. Verdict – this place was fun.

I had a long dip in the bath tub after putting the boys to bed for their nap, cooked dinner for the boys and spent the rest of the evening relaxing, not doing anything.

By 10plus close to 11pm, hubby and I went off to meet up a friend for some good supper – the local delights. I’m not sure what others label this in English, but in mandarin, it’s called 串串乐. It was my first to try out any food from a mobile stall and they have the raw food all lined up with bamboo sticks that had their ends colored for price indication. Some were good to cook in boiling water while others tasted best by frying. I must say them tasted good.

It had been ages since I could stay out this late and have my supper with a peace of mind!

4th October 2010 (Monday)

Time to head back home! After all the packing, packing and more packing, we deposit our luggage with the service apartment and went off to do some last min shopping before heading for the airport to catch our flight.

The ride to the airport seems longer than expected and we were all kind of tired out from the 5 days of traveling. Dylan had tummy ache since morning and that sent him all quiet and moody. He had too much of the Cameron Highlands strawberry.

We boarded our plane, took off from the runway, and watched the sky getting darker as we flew high up in the sky. Devan has been an easy baby throughout the trip, easily pacified, willing to take short naps on the go, always smiley and ready to entertain us with his cuteness.

As a saying goes, good times always ends fast and that’s so true, especially when we were on holidays. This was truly a great getaway for us. ^ ^

Our Family Malaysia Trip – 30th Sep to 4th Oct 2010 (Part 3)

2010-10-28T09:00:00.001+08:00

2nd October 2010 (Saturday)

This day we were heading off to Kuala Lumpur by making a detour to Ipoh.

Kind of miss the cool weather and fresh air we had up there. It’s a good place for everyone to relax and slow down our pace. And not having issue with the irritating haze and crazy weather condition down here on the plains.

Before we made our way down the mountain, we paid a visit to a tea plantation. It was a magnificent sight, seeing hectares and hectares of tea trees, and the workers picking the tea leaves under the morning sun. We did nothing but enjoying the most of what was provided by the nature. My mind was at peace and I was so glad we made that trip. The journey to and fro the tea plantation wasn’t an easy one – for the road was just wide enough for one vehicle to pass through at a time, yet it served as a two-way road. Hence when there was a car approaching, we had to stop at the very edge to allow it to pass through. The winding road didn’t make the driving any easier and hubby had a tough time behind the wheels. I even got worried at one point thinking we might fall off the cliff in our rented MPV!

We left the highland in a happy mood and were greeted by the heat as we moved towards Ipoh. Haiz… Still we kept our spirit high, thinking of the famous Ipoh chicken rice that was waiting for us. *wink*

After long hours on the road, plus made a few rounds in the city of Ipoh, all for the reason why we chose to make a detour instead of taking another route which would lead us to Kuala Lumpur at a faster time, we finally found it! The famous Ipoh chicken rice – 老黄芽菜鸡沙河粉!

The chicken was tender and juicy. The rice had this nice fragrance. The bean sprout, it was oh so delicious! I seldom take bean sprout other than the ones my mom cooks as most of the time they were too raw to my liking, but this was so yummy! They were crunchy and appetizing. And as for their rice noodle (河粉), it was so silky smooth. *drool*

It was a good thing we arrived early because by the time we started ordering our food, the crowd started coming in and it was full house when we left the eating place at 2pm.

With our stomach full and travelling under the hot sun did make us sleepy. Devan was a cranky baby during the remaining ride. And we missed a turn, got ourselves stuck in a heavy traffic jam and arrived at our service apartment (Somerset Service Residence) an hour later than the expected time. We were all so tired out after a long ride, but upon seeing the apartment we were to stay in for the next two days sure cheer us up! It was spacious, well furnished and decorated, a huge bathtub in our huge bathroom, a very well equipped kitchen with expensive utilities and a washing machine with dryer function! Wow, that was so cool!

For the remaining day, I chose to stay in the apartment with the boys while hubby and my parent went out to explore the area and packed us dinner. They came back talking non-stop on what they saw and how well situated we were.

As for the boys, they were like birds released from the cage. Ate LOTS of Sometime food and watched LOTS of cartoons. I guessed that what kids do when they were on holidays. ^ ^

*Part 4 – coming up next!

Our Family Malaysia Trip – 30th Sep to 4th Oct 2010 (Part 2)

2010-10-25T15:30:00.001+08:00

1st October 2010 (Friday)

Rise and shine! A brand new day in a foreign land, up in the mountain.

We were welcomed by the cool morning breeze, all set and fresh to start our day visiting the local attractions.

First stop – Big Red Strawberry Farm.
We spent quite a fair bit of our morning at this strawberry plantation where it was loaded with big and juicy strawberries, cactus, vegetables and strawberry related souvenirs. We had a great time tasting their strawberries and they sure have a long menu ranging from strawberry ice-cream, strawberry muffin, strawberry pancake, strawberry juice, strawberry salad and many more. Dylan was a happy chap as he got to finish up a big bowl of fresh strawberries topped with LOTS of cream (oh so sinful). According to Dylan, Devan and my mom (as I, hubby and my dad don’t take strawberry), these hydroponically grown fruits were very fresh, sweet and juicy.

My mom went gaga when she knew the vegetables were for sale, and she went along to do her ‘shopping’. A good thing we were staying in apartment with well equip kitchen to allow us to do some cooking. Oh yes, we got some fresh strawberries with us when we left the place.

Second stop – Butterfly Garden.
I got quite a few times of scare from the butterflies! They flew so very near my face or zooming pass me at high speed. There was a showcase of other insects like spiders, lizards etc. Man, I don’t fancy insects. They simply freak me out with their hairy legs and creepy looks. But Dylan had real close looks at them live, instead of those 2D images from books.

Third stop – Rose Centre.
This was the third time I set my feet in this place and I must say it didn’t change much! The first visit was in year 1996 with a big gang of my club mates. The second was in year 1999 with a bunch of friends and boyfriend, now hubby. This time round we returned with two kids, year 2010. *smile*

As like I said, the place didn’t change much except for fresh new paint and maybe some new species of flowers. Be prepared to do some climbing if you ever plan to pay Rose Centre a visit. Hubby and I gave up trying to climb any further as I was quite burnt out having to carry an over 10kgs Devan the whole morning. And to top it off, he was much like a wiggly worm at most times.

The cool weather, the breeze, the scenery, the fond memories and the company of my love ones truly made this trip a very enjoyable one.

After a good lunch at a coffeshop, we headed back to our apartment. Got the boys washed up and tucked them in for a nap. And both hubby and I went for a walk around the small town, enjoying the couple time together walking hand in hand in the cool weather.

By nightfall, we headed out to the Weekend Night Market located in Brinchang - a much populated town in Cameron Highland. We bought some food back for dinner and a must-try local food - sweet corn. Very much unlike the ones we have back home, this was simply delicious! We were told they can be eaten raw, but um… we were not adventurous enough. Ha!

*Part 3 – coming up soon!

Our Family Malaysia Trip – 30th Sep to 4th Oct 2010 (Part 1)

2010-10-19T09:00:00.055+08:00

Alright! I finally got myself to sit down to blog on our Malaysia trip after much delay! Been so caught up with the household, the boys, and my online business that my personal blog felt so neglected…

Okay, down to the main topic before I drafted further with my rambling!

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This family trip was planned by my dear hubby. He took time to research on the accommodations, travelling mode, route, air tickets, car rental etc… And I packed our luggage – one thing out of the many I’m really good at! Ha!

It was a 5 days 4 nights trip – 2 nights at Cameron Highland, 2 nights at Kuala Lumpur. We fly to Kuala Lumpur, rent a MPV and self-drive up the mountains. On our way back from Cameron Highland to Kuala Lumpur, we made a detour to Ipoh for a lunch at a well-known Chicken Rice stall there. Return the rented car when we got to Kuala Lumpur, walked or took a cab while traveling around the city before we returned to Singapore by plane.

30th Sep 2010 (Thursday)

We got up real early for the day to catch our flight to Kuala Lumpur – the start of our holiday! Yeah!

I and hubby woke up at 5am while Dylan jumped out of his bed when we went to him around 15 mins before six. He was VERY excited about this trip and hence he was very cooperative – getting himself washed up, finished his milk and dressed. So unlike the usual mornings where hubby nagged till the cows come home and yet he moves at a very SLOOOW speed to get himself ready for school.

By 6.15am, we were out of our place, picked up my parent before heading straight for the airport.

This was Dylan’s second time taking a plane and Devan’s first! How exciting!

Dylan was so thrilled. He took his own passport, carried his bag, pushed one of our luggages and queued for check-in, just like a little man. On the other hand, as expected, our youngest in the group know little of where and what we’re doing. All he wanted was, PLAY, RUN and EAT. We all had quite a challenging time with him really, for he couldn’t sit still and stay quiet at the dining table, unless we keep stuffing food into his mouth, which was what we did! He was practically eating ALL THE TIME! Hence, he was labeled by us as 大蚂蚁 aka Big Ant.

The air flight from Singapore to Kuala Lumpur seem to be very fast, or rather too fast before our butts were able to have a cozy time with our seats!

As we were so much earlier than the scheduled arrival time, we had no choice but to wait around the airport for our MPV to come. With nothing much to do, Eat is the best option I supposed!

Our rented car arrived and we all happily boarded it. Everyone was in high-spirit! And I was pleased the car was in good and clean condition.

It was a winding road up the mountains. To top it up, it started to rain when we entered the foot of the mountain. By the time we finally reached our destination in the town of Tanah Rata, it was already four in the afternoon. We had spent the whole day traveling!

The 3 bedrooms apartment we booked was spacious, clean but freezing cold! The one thing I didn’t expect. I could barely walk around bare footed without a pair of slipper on.

After a long day on the road, we decided to pack our dinner from a nearby restaurant, cleared up the food, had a quick shower (too cold to stay naked), put the boys to sleep, studied the map, did some planning and off we went to bed.

* Part 2 – coming up soon!

I’m NOT T.I.R.E.D

2010-09-30T09:00:00.006+08:00

There were days when they declared war with the Big Z Monster. On some days they won, while on others… they surrendered.

On this particular morning, I got this.

A little boy who fought so hard to have his eyes wide open, kept himself standing up - he thought this for sure will keep him awake. But the Z Monster was too powerful this time round. I found him knocked out, leaning against the couch, his legs jerked once in awhile, obviously at the verge of collapsing onto the floor…

CUTE!

A Sunday Lunch at a Not-So-Crowded Place

2010-09-29T09:00:00.001+08:00

As parent with two young boys, we’re always in the need to think of an eating place which is not crowded, preferably air-condition and of course serve us our favorite food.

We craved for Japanese food (again). And so off we went online to search for a Sakae Sushi outlet that might just give us what we were looking for and decided to check out the one located at West Coast Plaza. It’s been more than 5 years since the last time I stepped into this shopping mall.

As expected, the place was not crowded. It was newly renovated – everything looks new, the place was bright and spacious. To top it up, we got to have our family all-time-favorite!

And for the next one hour or so, we ate to our heart content. Their Beef Sukiyaki was heavenly! So were the Sashimi Salmon, Fried Salmon Skin, Soft Shell Crab… and lots more. I mean, all the dishes we ordered tasted damn good! Ha! All the food was cleared off the table and into our belly tummies. Yum yum. ^ ^

Devan – In the Stage of Terrible Two

2010-09-24T11:00:00.000+08:00

As I was watching him quietly at the bedroom door without him noticing, I was kind of overwhelmed at how much my baby has grown over the past 20 months – from once a tiny infant (who only knew how to sleep, feed, cry and poo) to now a young toddler (who has a level of independence, always out to cross boundaries and full of curiosities).

I’m sure there are plenty of moms out there having the same thought as I have at times – hoping time will stand still and our babies will remain to be at a stage when they are the cutest. Yes?

Anyway we know that’s impossible to happen - for Time will not stop for anyone. Our little ones keep growing and we’re aging by the second.

This child of ours is a easier baby as compare to his elder brother – he slept a lot as an infant (now still do), sleep through the night since he was 4 months old, easily coax and definitely a VERY smiley baby.

When its bedtime, all we need to do is to put him in his cot, lights out, leave the room and he’ll fall asleep on his own. At times when he wasn’t sleepy yet, he would ‘talk’ and entertain himself with his pillows, soft toys and blanket. Doing his peek-a-boos or roll himself silly in that little compound of his. He’s easy to care for, EXCEPT for the tantrums he’s been giving us recently.

When he couldn’t get what he wants (with things as simple as pressing a lift button), he flares up. When his brother took away a toy or a dangerous object from him, he screams and cries his heart out. When he’s exhausted yet trying to fight away the sleepy monster, he howls and lay flat on the floor…… challenging as they are, especially when we’re out.

A bunch of teens were commenting when they saw the drama of this 20 months old sitting along the pathway crying buckets while his Papa was standing 3 feet away, exhausted and useless after wrestling with his kid for the past 10 mins. I know what they might be thinking, because I used to have the same thought when seeing kids misbehaving in the public and parent not doing a thing. That was BEFORE I’ve Devan… Dylan never once gave us this sort of special treatment. And we simply have no idea where on earth he learnt this trick – root on the spot and being a drama king…

No doubt - HE IS AT HIS TERRIBLE TWO.

Oh well, this is just a small tiny part out of the whole package of parenthood. ^ ^

Life Might Just Be Much Simpler (and Happier)... Seeing Things Through a Child's Eyes

2010-09-22T09:00:00.009+08:00

A conversation that took place during our car ride home from my parent’s sent both hubby and me thinking - our 4.5 years old taught us something!

Here’s what happened…

Me: “航, you’ve to learn how to swim okay? Because Papa and Mama don’t know how to…”
Hubby: “Ya, Papa Mama can’t swim. If we fell into the water, you can save us.”
Dylan: “O, okay.”
Hubby: “If both Papa and Mama fell into the water, who’ll you save first?”

Okay, now this father was playing mind game with his son… trying to find out how he loves more. A sticky question that always popped out when a couple was arguing and the female would throw this to the male: “If me and your mom fell into the water, which’ll you save first?” – A classic one huh.

Anyway, Dylan’s reply sent us to silence for a good one min or so…

Dylan: “….到时才看la.” (till then we’ll see how)

...... all was quiet in the car except for the radio playing in the background…

Hubby: “that’s a good answer – we shall see when it really happens.”
…

We learnt from our son one fundamental rule of staying positive and happy – not thinking too much of things that have yet took place or might not even happen in one’s lifetime.

This might just be the reason why our kiddos are always so cheerful and carefree, for they don’t think about what comes next or worry about what might happen and what they should do.

While us - the adults, think TOO MUCH. We prejudge, calculate risk factors, anticipating on the future – causing unnecessary worries, making us having cold feet and chicken out or simply being worried sick (for nothing).

We should learn from our kids, see things through their eyes - Take things as they come and face every challenge with grace. Life might just be much simpler (and happier).

Good Food Is Always Worth Waiting For

2010-09-17T09:00:00.002+08:00

After much request from Dylan over the past one month to bake his all-time favorite – Oreo Muffin, I finally got myself ready with the ingredients.
The making of these muffins is really fast and simply, follows the step by step instructions, throw everything into a mixing bowl, combine all up, dump the mixture into the muffin cups, send into the oven and within 20 mins or so we’ll be having piping hot oreo muffins fresh from the oven. The whole house basically sound like muffin!

The brothers took a stool each, sat themselves comfortably in front of the oven and waited patiently for their FOOD. They watched excitedly as the muffins ‘grow’ bigger.

My goodness, it was so hot in the kitchen with the heat coming from the oven. Yet the brothers had no complaints. Seldom do I see such high level of patience being displayed by them, especially for Devan – the most impatient and easily agitated one in the family.

But we all know – good food is always worth waiting for!

Meet the Green Froggie at Sakae Sushi

2010-08-31T14:22:00.000+08:00

This was the second time we visited their branch at Tradehub 21. And they have this huge froggie signboard indicating drive-through order is available.

This time round, we tried out two new dishes – the Ebi Tempura Sushi and Seafood Kimuchi Binbinba Don.

By the look on Dylan’s face, it was very obvious the Ebi Tempura Sushi was good… The Seafood Kimchi Binbinba tasted great – with plenty of seafood and veggies, the amount of kimchi sauce was just right. Note – for someone like me who don’t take kimchi as what it is, having me say this dish is good means it is really GOOD! *grin* Oh yes, I love the rice being partially burnt by the hot pot. Yum yum…

I guess most children love what their parent like – because my boys simply enjoy Japanese food. Dylan was able to use a chopstick for the first time during the lunch, while Devan helped himself with some sushi rice and kept nodding his head indicating the food is nice. ^ ^

A Lazy Lunch By A Lazy Mom

2010-08-30T09:00:00.001+08:00

Cooking on a daily basis can be such a chore, and I always do have the urge to eat out or pack outside food to save the trouble of messing up my kitchen, not mentioning the washing and cleaning part. Plus, I need to be in the mood to cook!

Everyday, I’ll be battling with the devil in my head and sweet little angel will always win the fight!

Reason being - I WANT my kids to have healthy home cooked food everyday, or at least for that 5 weekdays. (Devan has yet been given the green light to dive into outside food, poor fellow.)

And on those days when I was feeling super duper lazy and yet the little angel still wins, I’ll usually prepare sandwiches with lots of veggies – one of Dylan’s favorites.

The most rewarding part of all - was when he cleared the whole plate, gave me a satisfied look, thumbs-on and said “Mama, 好吃！” ^ ^

The Beach Boyz

2010-08-29T21:00:00.019+08:00

It took me more than 4 weeks to blog about this family outing. Man, I’m so so so SLOW in my blogging now! This is how bad it has become after my online store came up…

Anyway,

Back to my Beach Boyz! This was Devan’s First at a beach!

His parent is not really those outdoor people, nor are they those sporty ones who’ll bring their kids out for a run or do a sport. Basically, they are plainly, extremely under exercised human beings who rather stay indoor and rot! BUT, as a mother, I know some fresh air and sunlight will do the boys well. Hence, a proposal was sent to their Papa and off we went to the beach!

It was sunny, way too hot for us - the couch potatoes. But hey, we were armed with everything – plenty of drinking water, hat, sunblock lotion etc.

Devan wasn’t sure what was going on till I deposit him on the beach. He sat there very still for a minute or so, moving inch by inch to feel the sand rubbing against his legs. He was curious yet reserved. But… within minutes, he had sand all over him and… I believed he ate some too. Oh well, a little sand in his diet might not be a bad thing after all. Haha!

Dylan on the other hand went wild – he rolled on the sand, rested comfortably on the shore while the wave washed him. He was grinning from ear to ear.

It had been awhile since the last time we visited a beach – 2 years that is!

It was a wonderful feeling having my feet in the sand. The sun was strong – I was very sure we all produced plenty of Vitamin D during our stay on the beach, and the breeze rubbing against our cheeks was warm yet soothing. I Like! ^ ^

Privilege Being a Child

2010-08-17T09:00:00.003+08:00

Just when I was feeling exhausted after a morning of housework, I found Devan on the floor mat in the living hall, watching a tv program while swinging his legs in the air. Gee, this lil fellow sure knows how to enjoy life!

Have you ever have the thought of being little again? Or are you oh so envy of seeing your kiddos or young children having an awesome life being so carefree and happy-go-lucky?

Well, I do! And yes, very much at times when I was so caught up with my daily life and yet seeing my boys play like there is no tomorrow. Ha! When they were hungry - make some noise and food will appear right in front of them. When they were sleepy or not feeling right - wailed some more and comfort is on the way. Being little has tons of licenses – license to throw tantrums, license to misbehave, license to cry their heart out, license for not keeping track of time etc etc.

As one grows, responsibility increases, the wants overtake the needs, the desires rule the mind. We eventually lost those privileges we once had, those that were taken for granted when we were little.

I kept reminding my 4 years old to cherish his moments now - for once he enters Primary School, a huge portion of his childhood life will be filled with school works, tests, and extra school activities. That’s so sad! Boo hoo…

We - the Japanese Food Fans Family

2010-07-28T09:00:00.002+08:00

Anyone could label us as this, for we’re so in love with Japanese food!

Initially it was me who drool at the sight of this delicacy. Now… my dear 4.5 years old joins in. The hubby too was tempted. Ha! And our youngest member in the family enjoys what’s been sending into his mouth while we dived into the feast.

This day, we visited Sakae Sushi, one of their branches located at Suntec City, Tower 3. We arrived early, 10 mins before 6pm, as Dylan was hungry. It was no joke when my little man said he was hungry, because for that dinner alone he wiped out 7 plates out of the 9 plates and sushi and handrolls. And he had a fair share from our dishes as well. Man, this boy sure can eat!

We ordered Curry Udon, Tenzaru Soba Ramen, Chawanmushi, Spicy Kimuchi Beef, plus 9 color plates! It was a little too much for us though and that was the consequence of being hungry when ordering. Blah! But still, we finished everything, not a single grain of rice was left on the plate. It’s a sin to waste food ya.

Oh yes, Dylan had his first sashimi – a slice of fresh raw salmon. He loves it!

Anyway, we were there for more than an hour! Not that it took us an hour to clear the food, but due to our dear son who insisted to have his food from the restaurant’s ceramic bowl, painted with pretty pink flowers at the side. Not only that, he demanded to feed himself (something he had not done before)… and gosh, it was a mess – a disastrous act of his! He had his porridge in his nose, on his cheek, all over his mouth and clinging to his cloth.

Still, we had a great dinner. The ability to eat to our heart content is simply awesome. *grin*

A New Phase in Life

2010-07-26T09:00:00.007+08:00

For the past two and a half week, I was missing in action in the blogosphere and I had neglected my personal blog all these while.

I felt bad. I had those withdrawal symptoms while away from my blogging – a habit that was with me for the past coming two years.

Well, as some of you might have known the reason, I was working my days and nights out on my online store – Scrappin’ Love! Yeah! I finally had it up and running after pondering for a few months, and a few delays here and there. But I’m glad things are falling into place and I’m blessed with all the supports and encouragements I received from friends and most important of all, my family.

Dear friends, you know who you’re, too many sweet and encouraging people for me to list down here, my deepest appreciation and thank you for your words. Love you all!

My dearest man in my life, thank you for all the things you’ve done for me – help me run errands, doing purchases, the oh so valuable endless supports you had given me right from the start when I told you I want to setup an online business. What can I say, I’m so blessed to have you! Thank you dear.

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This, is a new chapter for me. I choose to work from home – not because I have to, but because I WANT TO. I could’ve just been a SAHM taking good care with my boys and having ME time as and when I’m able to. Yet I choose to go beyond that, to do more of what I had chose to take up 3.5 years ago (resigned from my design job and moved on being a SAHM). I dislike the thought of being stagnant - doing the same thing for years and not moving forward.
Are you in this situation where you work for years in an organization and don’t seem to be getting anywhere? Are you comfortable with where you’re now? Or are you too comfortable to do anything out of your usual routine life? Think about it.

The desire of wanting to accomplish something pushes me to move forward, to take up challenges, to work for the satisfactions.

Of course, it wouldn’t be a smooth sailing journey for me, but I’m ready to clear the obstacles. It’s only through hardship and being adventurous will one become a better and stronger person.

"we all need to belong to something bigger than ourselves, the 'big' inspires us, we inspire the 'bigger'." -Jim Rohn

Life is short, live it to the fullest and enjoy the journey. Be someone you yourself are proud of. Do what you love. Be who you are.

Have goals. And LIVE YOUR DREAMS!

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Thank you for remembering me and dropping by. When you’re able to, do drop by here often and swing by my online store ya!

Look Who’s Looking

2010-07-07T09:00:00.001+08:00

During our dinner in a Japanese restaurant, I took out my camera to snap some pictures.

When I was trying to capture Devan with the lens, instead of reaching out to grab the cam from me, he moved his face so close, as if trying to see his own reflection within the lens.

It was a rare chance for me to hit my shutter button at such a close range. So close that I could see biscuit crunches on his lip.

I LOVE Toy Story 3

2010-07-06T09:00:00.018+08:00

Love love love it to bits!! It was such a fantastic show! Even better than its part 1 and 2, can you imagine that?!

Well, if you’ve yet watch it, you’re seriously missing out all the fun and laughter.

I was in cloud nine when I saw the email from Nuffnang that I was rewarded with a pair of complimentary pass to catch Toy Story 3! Woohoo! All thanks to the blog post I wrote Here. And a big thank you to Nuffnang too.

So, we set off to catch my favorite movie one afternoon. Pardon me, but I was so excited. So much so that I find myself behaving like a little girl waiting longingly to enter the cinema, grab the seat and all ready for the show to start. I was extremely happy that day! We spent only 7 bucks to get all four of us into the cinema. Ha!

And, we sat through the show with 90% of the time spent laughing. Dylan was glued to his booster seat. Devan was fascinated and didn’t fuss a single bit. Cool.

Mr Potato Head – my favorite character, he was hilarious! There was this session during their escape mission – he used a piece of ham to act as his body, poking his eyes, nose, limbs, every parts of him onto the ham and wiggled his way around. Buzz Lightyear, he suddenly became a Spanish guy when Rex pressed on his reset button for too long. Oh boy, there were just too many scenes that made me laughed my head off.

Don’t be surprise when I told you I nearly cried, twice to be exact. One scene where the toys were fighting their dear life to escape from the furnace. They came to a point knowing they were near their ends and they started holding each other hands for comfort and reassurance. Oh man, I was so touched with this simple yet powerful gesture of theirs. But of course, someone came to their rescue – the Squeeze Toy Aliens a.k.a. the LGMs (Little Green Men), the three cute little aliens who call Mr Potato Head their Daddy. Haha.

The second scene that made me all so emotional was when Andy was struggling whether to let Bonnie have Woody. The words he said sure touched me deep. I was once in that position – debating to or not to pass my toys to someone who needs it more than I do. And the faith Woody has in Andy – it makes me feel oh so fuzzy and warm.

Gosh, will there be a part 4? Since part 3 was such a big hit. I hope so!

Jacob Ballas Children’s Garden

2010-07-05T09:00:00.014+08:00

Yeah! Finally! We finally visited the Children Garden after making two U-turns on two separate occasions due to rain.

We have wanted to get to know this place better after hearing good reviews from friends… erm… or rather it was me who wanted to bring the boys there. I’ve been bugging their Papa to pay this place a visit since many many months ago.

Anyway, we were there at last – on a HOT afternoon. But thank goodness it was a breezy day.

It always feels good to be among the natural, away from the busy street, huge crowd and polluted air. Both the husband and I are not the outdoor people, but now with two little monkeys in the house, it’s wise to head out to use up their energy! Save me some sanity!

There was the Tree House where Dylan went wild with the slides and sand. There was this log laid across a mini river where we got to cross it. There was this station where it teaches us the concept of photosynthesis. There was this hanging bridge where we had fun crossing it. And there was the water-play area where the kids had some fun (though I wish for it to be more massive).

All in all, it was a good experience, though we have yet combed every corner of this awesome place. It already feels good to be close to the greens.

A Boy with a Big Appetite

2010-06-30T09:00:00.003+08:00

Dylan was a 90 percentile baby since birth. And this might just explain of his BIG appetite.

Since an infant, he drinks lots and drinks very well. Hardly a single occasion of milk strike or food rejection. He took in whatever we gave him and would gulp all up happily. He was an easy baby when comes to food.

Now, he still is an easy toddler who eats a wide variety except for spicy and bitter stuff. And he’s constantly asking for food. He needs his three main meals plus his morning and afternoon tea break. Occasionally topping up with healthy snacks here and there.

He’s a bread and egg lover. If you were to give him a breakfast set of toast with half-boiled eggs, ah… he’ll be so delighted and probably finish up everything before you could ask him to share. He would also ask for bread barely an hour after a heavy meal.

Still,

I’m grateful to be blessed with such an easy and big eater, though it could be a little heavy on our pockets. Ha!

Best Pal on Earth

2010-06-29T09:00:00.004+08:00

There were times when I would find myself staring at my boys’ back, smiling away. I discovered I had lots of pictures of those too.

Seeing the two of them being side by side, with their back facing me, seems to be always an enjoyable moments. While Dylan’s tall for his tender age, Devan looks little standing beside his elder brother. My soon-to-be 18 months old truly adores his big brother – follows and imitates whatever his brother does. He’ll let Dylan to hold his hand and follows willing to whichever direction his brother led to him. He would run after his brother. He would allow Dylan to feed him. He does what his brother asks him to, almost all the time. He loves his big brother.

Dylan has realized that he being an elder brother holds many more responsibilities than just playing with his baby brother. He speaks to Devan tenderly, most of the time. He looks out for Devan when they are out and about. He asks for Devan when he’s not with him. He spontaneously volunteers to attend to Devan when I was occupied with something. He must hold Devan’s hand when they’re out of the house. He will check on Devan when his baby brother overslept during his naps. He has accepted Devan whole-heartedly since the day his baby brother entered his life.

Having kids of the same gender does ease the parent off some load, and with the sibling of a certain age gap too plays a part. Devan plays what Dylan plays. Dylan’s independent enough to care for himself while helping us to keep an eye on his little brother. They’re each other’s playmate and companion.

Of course, they do fight over toys, argue over who be the first to taste that cup of ice-cream, cry or make a big hoo-hah when being provoked. That’s how kids grow up I supposed. Need a bit of shoulder rubbing and tears to toughen them up.

They’ve this invisible rope that binds the two of them together – a bond that holds them close forever.

Prevention is Always Better than Cure

2010-06-25T09:00:00.003+08:00

[Read: the following content might be a little too serious or heavy for some of you. But if you choose to read on, good for you! I’m sure this post will do you good. *wink*]

Ya, we all know – Prevention is better than cure. But how many of us really belong to the Prevention category? Think about it.

How about Cancer? Does it sound very familiar to you? It is, to me. I was surrounded by this irritating deadly illness for a period of two years – a period where five people in my life passed on after a long and suffering battle.

What can be more hurtful than to witness the person you care for slowly waste away and yet you can do nothing to help ease the suffering and pain. I can never ever erase those memories, especially of my dear aunt. She had passed away for a few years now, and every time of the year when we celebrate Dragon Boat Festival (端午節), I always miss her so. She made the most delicious nyonya dumpling in the whole world.

Her life started crashing down when she was diagnosed with cervical cancer and everything seems to be a rollercoaster in super fast forward mode. She had to have her whole womb removed. I saw the pic the surgeon took of what was taken out of her, besides being bloody and all mashed up, I could make out the tumor that was eating up my aunt.

Rounds and rounds of radiation therapy and chemotherapy tortured her. She was fighting for hope to survive. Still, after a year of wrestling with this illness, she left us. Finally, she was released from all the sufferings and be at peace.

This was what cervical cancer did to my aunt.

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Do you know that cervical cancer kills one woman every two minutes, worldwide? Here in Singapore, more than one woman dies of cervical cancer every 5 days. It is the 6th most common cancer found in our hometown.

And do you know as long as you have sex (no matter how young or old), cervical cancer might just be knocking at your door?

The good thing is - cervical cancer can be prevented. Guard yourself with regular pap smear test or get a cervical cancer vaccination. Don’t ever have the thought that you won’t be the next one on the cervical cancer list, anything is possible and surprises always come unannounced.

Be prepared. Be protected. So you’re able to protect your family.

Power Over Cervical Cancer (POCC) is a campaign that depends heavily on the power of word of mouth to help save as many women as possible from Cervical Cancer. I learnt more of this deadly yet preventable illness after visiting the website.

So, if you’re a babe, do share this valuable information with your girlfriends, mom, and sister. But if you’re a dude, don’t think this doesn’t concern you, tell your partner and the people you care about it. Make your pledge to support this campaign to protect all the women you care for now!

Power Over Cervical Cancer is a campaign that aims to make Singapore the country with the lowest incidence of Cervical Cancer and they need your help to spread the word. Pledge your support for this cause and protect those you care about by telling them about Cervical Cancer. Together, we have POWER Over Cervical Cancer. Click the button below to begin!

Couch Potato

2010-06-24T09:00:00.003+08:00

This is what my 17 months old will do when I told him it’s time for Sesame Street – his favorite show.

He would put down whatever he was busy with, OR stop his tantrum immediately and RAN over to the couch. Climbed up, set his butt comfortably, lean back and enjoy the show. This little man sure knows how to enjoy life huh!

What’s more, sometime he even helped himself with the tv. He knows which switch to on among a row of multi-power plug. He knows which button to hit to wake up the tv. But yet to figure out how to turn on the volume.

I had found him a number of times sitting quietly on the couch, with the tv remote control in his hand and staring intensively at the screen without the volume on.

Hmm… we see the possibility of activating the child-lock function in our tv set. Ha!

A Moms-Only-Dinner

2010-06-22T09:00:00.000+08:00

It was a long time ago since I had a moms-only-dinner. This time round, I got to meet up with the gals whom I have known them from a forum.

You might have guessed, and yes you might have got it right. The Singapore Motherhood Forum.

When I was pregnant with Dylan, I joined this forum whereby all the moms or moms-to-be got together to share particularly everything and anything that’s related to motherhood. We had gatherings, play dates, parties. We watched our kids (born in the same year, same month) grow from tiny babies to now four years old toddlers. It has been five years since we first got to know one another by our nicknames.

Time flies.

As Devan came along, I got myself involved with another bunch of fun-loving gals. We connect further through Facebook, and that’s when I was able to match the nicknames with real names and faces. That’s how amazing social media can do – bringing people together and closer without physical contact. Love it!

This was my first time meeting up these gals, and oh my, it was FUN. We were like a group of school gals chatting non-stop over yummy food. It was a miracle we were not asked to leave after making so much noise!

What’s more, I got to sit comfortably while chewing slowly on my food (rather than swallow them down as a whole). Sipping my glass of lemonade gracefully (rather than gulp down some water before running off to attend to something).

It was a terrific night.

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Hey babes, round table for the next date huh? ^ ^

A Year Older, A Little Wiser

2010-06-21T09:00:00.003+08:00

We all have one special day dedicated to us, and that is our birthday - the DAY we came to this world crying our lungs out.

My man just had his special day last weekend.

No party, no expensive celebration. We had a great family time with our boys, the daddy made a few purchases to add-on to his wardrobe, got a cake so that we could sing happy birthday song and blow candles. Nothing fanciful really. But absolutely priceless moments.

He received two handmade cards – one from Dylan, one from me. I have been making cards for this one and only man in my life since we started dated each other thirteen years ago, and I want to continue doing this for the many years to come, till the day I could no longer move my hands.

Happy birthday Dear… May happiness, good health, and wisdom be with you.

And, you must remember what I wrote to you in the card!

The Mid-Month of Idling at Home

2010-06-16T09:00:00.002+08:00

In less than two weeks, the June school holiday will be over. Wow, that’s FAST.

I was exchanging thoughts earlier this month with other fellow SAHM on how even more busy we became when the kids had no school to attend, but idling at home and getting on our nerves. And here we are now, another twelve days to go before school reopens.
Everyday, the boys are so loaded with energy, while their mother crawls out of bed to start the day. It’s a good thing there are some wonderful educational tv programs (e.g. Sesame Street, Super Y, Hi-5, Mickey Mouse) that could keep them occupied for the morning.

On this particular day, with no tv program to catch and not much brain juice left to think of what to do with Dylan, I dig out a bag of assorted buttons, a few glass bottles, and got him to help me with the color sorting. I made a smart move – Dylan was glued to the chair for the following 40mins to get all the buttons sorted out.

This was a great activity indeed - killing two birds with a stone. While he was having a fun time doing color sorting, I was left alone for a good amount of time to get some things done.

A Stay-At-Home-Mom during the June School Holiday

2010-06-15T09:00:00.004+08:00

Alright, I started to miss out on my blogging on a daily basis!

Not that I had spent that blogging time idling around, but had chose to use that 30mins to catch up on my sleep. Btw, I’m very very very deprived from sleep. I’m one of those moms out there spending at least 18 hours awake in a day, at times 20 hours even. Crazy you can call us, but it’s our choice to use that few hours to accomplish some tasks that are tough to clear when our kids are awake.

With the school holiday, time has not been on my side even more (hmm, when has it been anyway?). Everyday is like a rat race.

And just over the last weekend, I attended a 3 days seminar – Global Internet Seminar, an internet seminar that coaches us on How-To unlock the secrets to internet wealth. A very informative one indeed, and I was blown away with the many possibilities of making a profitable online business, earning while we sleep. Sounds too good to be true huh? That’s the truth, no doubt about it.

What amazed me more was the huge number of participants who are in their 40s 50s, and even 60s! Many of them of our parent’s age.

I spoke to some of them, and oh my, they inspired me much. In their golden age, they chose to challenge themselves in the internet world – an unknown but huge opportunity ground. The younger generation should be ashamed when compare with these motivating senior citizens.

Self-improvement is so important, and we the SAHMs shouldn’t be rob of these privileges.

With our main focus in being home taking care and educating our kids the way we want to, the online opportunity is our next best option if we ever plan of earning a significant amount of income while working from home.

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I had a great weekend. My mind was fed. My questions were answered. All thanks to my mom and hubby who helped in babysitting the boys, so I could go for the seminar with a clear and peaceful mind. I’m grateful...

This is busy but fruitful month. With two scrapbooking classes lined up and a birthday celebration for my darling hubby, my life is busy but exciting! LOVE it!

Toy Story 3

2010-06-10T09:00:00.001+08:00

It’s here! Toy Story 3 is going to be screen in a week’s time. Yeah!

Honestly, I’ve been waiting for this day to come. For months, news of this movie was heard every now and then. And finally we got to watch it. I just can’t wait!

Toy Story meant more than just a movie to me.

It was the year when I was appointed as the treasurer of the Chinese Language Society Club during my tertiary education, and we came up with this fund raising movie screening. Among the list of movies we could rent to screen, we chose Toy Story.

The whole experience was a memorable one to me. Leading a bunch of teenagers (my dear fellows), we made this event a very successful one. From police permit, printing of movie tickets, advertising, selling of tickets, collection of the film, to the tons of coordination work during the screening day. Man, those were the days.

We were so full of energy and motivation, going from blocks to blocks, door to door selling the tickets, and sweating from head to toe – all for the reason to raise more funds. For that particular reason, we became extremely polite youngsters and A-grade salesman, selling our way through the day till late night. Gosh, how I missed those moments.

Toy Story brought back fond memories of my tertiary life – the years where we were so energized and full of crazy ideas, just like the characters in Toy Story.

Oh, my favorite Toy Story 3 character is Mr. Potato Head! My favorite is still him after all these years. Ha. He’s so cute and humorous. And whenever he falls apart (be it his eyes, ears, nose, moustache, mouth or arms), I always have a good laugh.

I was smiling throughout the time while watching the trailer, and my favorite scene is when Ken meets Barbie. It’s so cute! Just like the way I would imagine they would behave when they set their eyes on each other. Ken and Barbie – the prefect couple. I used to have a Barbie and a Ken. Hee.

So, if you would like to watch it, catch Toy Story 3 Movie starting from 17th June 2010 and join the official Facebook and Twitter page!

Devan – The Joy of Feeding Us

2010-06-09T09:00:00.002+08:00

Weeks ago, I passed him a recycle yoghurt cup, a few large buttons, and a plastic spoon.

From then on, he would help himself with the utensils, walked up to us, stirred in his bowl for a few times, and raised the spoon up, wanting to feed us.

We are not allowed to reject his kind intention btw. For he’ll go eh eh eh till we take a mouthful from his spoon, pretend it is all so tasty, will he then be satisfied and nod his head – a gesture of his which means nice, yummy.

So, if any of you get to meet him one of these days, please do play along with him if he decides to feed you.

A Kiss is More Than a Kiss

2010-06-07T09:00:00.002+08:00

Though me and the hubby has been kissing Dylan every night before he goes to bed since he was a little toddler.

We’re VERY into kissing lately.

It all started with our 16 months Devan - when he discovered this new thingy about planting his lip onto ours.

He would come in slow, draw his face closer inch by inch, aim for our lip, plant a light kiss, and look away from a cheeky smile on his face.

A wonderful and magical moment indeed.

Are You Happy?

2010-06-04T09:00:00.006+08:00

The hubby dropped me an email with the following content, together with an attachment –

Here’s what he wrote:
I am blessed to meet someone and marry her – one who knows how to take ownership and happiness of her life!

Gee, is he referring to me?

I guess so! *grin*

And here’s what I want to share with all of you out there – a very meaning and inspiring article.

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On a certain occasion, during an elegant welcoming reception for the new Director of Marketing of an important London company, some of the wives of the other directors, who wanted to get acquainted with the new spouse, asked her with some hesitation:

“Does your spouse make you happy, truly happy?”

The husband, who at the moment was not at her side, but was sufficiently near to hear the question, paid attention to the conversation, sitting up slightly, feeling secure, even filling his chest lightly in pride, knowing that his spouse would answer affirmatively, since she had always been there for him during their marriage.

Nevertheless, to both his and the others’ surprise, she replied simply“No, no he doesn’t make me happy... "

The room became uncomfortably silent, as if everyone were listening to the spouse’s response.

The husband was petrified.

He couldn’t believe what his wife was saying, especially at such an important occasion for him.

To the amazement of her husband and of everyone, she simply placed enigmatically on her head an elegant black silk scarf and continued:

"No, he doesn’t make me happy …I AM HAPPY.

The fact that I am happy or not, don’t depend on him, but on me.

I am the only person upon which my happiness depends. I make the choice to be happy in each situation and in each moment of my life.

If my happiness were to depend on other people, on other things or circumstances on the face of this earth, I would be in serious trouble!

Everything that exists in this life changes continually: humans, wealth, my body, the climate, pleasures, etc. I could enumerate an infinite list…

Over my life I have learned a couple of things:

I decide to be happy and the rest is a matter of "experiences or circumstances;” like helping, and understanding, accepting, listening, consoling; and with my spouse, I have lived and practiced this many times….

Happiness will always be found in forgiveness and in loving yourself and others.

It’s not the responsibility of my spouse to make me happy... He also has his“experiences or circumstances.”

I love him and he loves me, often inspite of his circumstances and of mine.

He changes, I change, the environment changes, everything changes;

Having forgiveness and true love, and observing these changes, that can be, big or little, but always happen, we must face them with the love that exists in each one of us. If the two of us love and forgive each other, the changes will only be “experiences or circumstances” that enrich us and give us strength. Otherwise we would only be “living together.”

For some, divorce is the only solution; (…in reality it is the easiest…)

To truly love, is difficult,

It is to forgive unconditionally, to live, to take the “experiences or circumstances” as they are, facing them together and being happy with conviction.

There are those who say:

"I cannot be happy because I am sick, because I have no money,

Because it’s too cold, because they insulted me,

Because someone stopped loving me,

Because someone didn’t appreciate me!”

But what you don’t know is that you can be happy even though you are sick, whether it is too hot,

whether you have money or not,

Whether someone has insulted you, or someone didn’t love you, or hasn’t valued you.

BEING HAPPY is an attitude about life and each one of us must decide!

BEING HAPPY, depends on you!”

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So, my friends, if there comes the time when you start complaining about how bad your day has become, or being sour on your unfortunate experiences.

Take a step back, and think again.

It’s your life, you decide on how to live it.

Share this with the people you love and care.

Who Do They Look More of?

2010-06-03T09:00:00.010+08:00

Recently I dig out the baby photos of us – the hubby, me, and the two little guys.

Can you tell who is who? And who looks like whom?

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When Dylan was born, family and friends would discuss and debate, who this little fellow looks like more, is he more of me or of his Papa.

Oh my, he has your eyes and ear. Your boy has his Papa’s lip. He’s tall, takes after both of you. He has such long eyelashes, which one of you has that? Blah blah blah, the list goes on.

Do I have the answers to their questions?

Search me, I have no idea. And I still am at loss whenever someone brings up this topic.

When Devan was born, our dear family and friends did the same again, and still does that whenever they see him.

Plus, the two brothers will be put side by side, with eyes going over them like x-ray, commenting and asking the parent who is by now quite numb with anything related to this topic.

Honestly, I don’t know who they look more of.

And I guess I never will.

For as the days goes by, they grow and start to have their own distinctive look.

Two different entities. Two different characters. Two different looks.

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I did a layout on our baby photos. To view the details, click HERE or hop over to my scrapbooking blog.

A Not-so-boring-looking Door

2010-06-02T09:00:00.001+08:00

It was once a dull, sad-looking wooden door no one will take another extra look at.

Now, it was transformed.

It looks a teeny-weeny bit cheerful and alive. All thanks to my 4 years old.

Dylan has been pasting Post-it notes on our master bedroom door. He will write whatever words he could come up with, and paste it on. Every single one of them lined up neatly.

Among the many words he has ON the door, there is a sunflower – drawn by him, just for me. *bliss*

Have a Break, Have a Kit Kat

2010-06-01T09:00:00.001+08:00

This is what I call pure bliss.

I had a whole day to myself, just ME, only Me. I was away from home for a solid nine hours, alone. A big bonus to me really.

There wasn’t a need to chase after any monkeys, or use my mighty strength to wrestle with a struggling bull dog. It was just ME, hands-free, mind at ease and breathing at a slow and relax rate. How nice is that? Fantastic!

Oh, and a small incident took placed during my little getaway – a student stopped me to do a survey. I was more than willing to help since I was in a real good mood.

Anyway, he asked for my occupation and I replied ‘stay-at-home-mom’ without any hesitation. But he gave me a blank look, obviously not having much idea of what I said. Then, I told him flatly ‘housewife’ and you could hear a ding went off in his head.

Man, I hate to use this word. Because to people not knowing what’s happening, housewife to them is one who only knows how to cook for the family, wash the toilet and chase after kids. And I’m way more than that!

Oh well, who cares? I know what I’m capable of and that’s what really matters.

And while I was waiting for a friend, I sat down, rest my feet, look and listen. Beside the sound of the traffic and people passing-by in quick steps, there was the drizzling sound from the rain, soft music coming from a nearby restaurant.

All was at peace and calm.

My Family Shadows

2010-05-31T09:00:00.001+08:00

This was taken during our recent visit to the Marina Barrage.

As we were leaving the place, I caught our shadows casting against the concrete floor. The late afternoon sun was strong – made our shadows dark and defined.

Instantly, I took out the camera and requested the 3 boys to stop for a second to capture down this moment.

There we have it - our very own family shadow photo. The hubby, Dylan, Devan, and me.

Water Fun at Marina Barrage

2010-05-27T09:00:00.013+08:00

Here we were again, but what made the difference this time round was we let the two little guys have a go at the Water Playground.

Now, that was exciting!

(Read: Devan had never visited any public pool for a dip before.)

We were excited - especially on how will our youngest son respond.

I changed him in the open, on our tiny picnic mat. This was his third visit. He was busy observing the surrounding – a place where he had no memories of.

Bare-footed, he stepped out of the picnic mat and onto the raw concrete floor. He was startled by what he felt, and quickly retreated onto the mat again. He observed the floor closely, took one step out slowly, followed by the next, and within minute, he was walking around on his own, but never more than 4 meters away from me.

Devan was like a fish to the water. He LOVES water. He was totally amazed by the water fountains. He had no fear of getting his head all wet and water dripping down his face. He was so cool, for a first-timer!

Such an adventurous baby I have here.

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[Did you see a mini RAINBOW?]

For the next 40 mins or so, our two little ones were having a fantastic water time, with the bodyguard (the hubby) tailing them all around. Devan’s fingers were all wrinkled up, but he was not at all bothered by them.

Finally, we got him out of the water without much resistance. Dried him, changed him, passed him his favorite biscuit, and placed him into the stroller. He was out within 2 mins.

While hubby and Dylan went for some kite-flying on the Roof Garden, I was lazing on the picnic mat and watched over Devan taking his long over-due afternoon nap.

The crowd started pouring in by the time we were leaving after Devan was up. The Water Playgound was packed with children as well as adults.

Well, I had made a wise decision to come over after lunch. If not for that, the boys would not be able to move and play freely without bumping into another person.

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We had lots of fun – me happily hitting the shutter button, the little ones had lots of water fun, and the hubby had a great bonding time with his sons.

Big Duck, Small Duck, Little Duckling

2010-05-26T09:00:00.049+08:00

The wacky Ducktours was BUMPY, noisy, but FUN!

A family of two big ducks, one small duck, and one cute duckling boarded the DUCK on a weekday morning. The sky is clear. The road traffic is smooth. It was a great experience for us.

I had wanted to ride on the Duck when Dylan was barely one year old. It was the ‘IN’ thing back then, everyone was talking about it and the reviews were good. But the ticket price wasn’t too good for us to go ahead with the ride.

Hence, 3 years later, we finally got to ride on one! All thanks to the wonders of credit card redemption points.

How exciting! It seems like we the big ducks were more excited than our small duck and little duckling. Ha!

This is how our little duckling looked like when onboard. And he spent the rest of the ride sitting on my lap. He was grouchy. He disliked the bumpiness and the noisy engine.

Oh well, at least he stayed still without more whining, and had a 15 mins or so nap while I was busy snapping pictures.

[Singapore Flyer]

[Marina Promenade and The Helix - the bridge linking from the Youth Olympic Park to the Marina Bay Sands]

[Esplanade and Swissotel The Stamford]

[Dylan was amazed by the sights he saw]

[Merlion]

[Marina Bay Sands]

[Skyscrapers at the CBD area]

[Another view of Marina Bay Sands]

[Marina Barrage against the blue sky]

We did not manage to take any land pictures during the ride though. Most of the sights were obstructed by the on-going national day parade installations. Anyway, we got to see them from time to time when we passes-by. The sea tour was something we don’t get to see everyday.

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It was a well-spent family time. The two little guys had a jolly good time. We had lunch, loitered for awhile, took this picture before collecting our car, headed home for a nice shower, and hit the pillow for a nap.

Dylan – He and His Social Development

2010-05-25T09:00:00.004+08:00

We had our parent-teacher-meeting last Friday.

Feedback from his teachers – he’s doing and learning very well, quick in picking up new things, displays a sense of leadership, expressed himself well with both English and Mandarin. But, his social skill needs to improve.

He has been disturbing his classmates in many ways.

Being a January baby, he’s more advance than most of his peers in many areas. Hence, he has this tendency to loose focus during lesson time, and decides to play with the person sitting next to him – mingle with their hair, poke them, talk to them, doing silly things to get their attention.

And, he’ll intentionally push over the building blocks his classmate is playing with, or mess up the toys one’s playing and have a good laugh from it.

Ahem, he does all these at home too. Poor little brother is constantly being irritated by his elder brother’s silly act.

I’m aware of these, yet kind of helpless of how to deal with this issue.

I know. Dylan’s trying to seek for attention through this channel, though not a very smart choice.

Ever since the arrival of his baby brother, he has changed. He has become a challenging child at times, no longer the sweet sensible and well-behavior boy he used to be. Getting on our nerve at times, make Devan screams at times.

Plus he DOESN’T LISTEN to instructions and warnings at most times, making millions of my brain cells to die in every half a second.
Gee, I’ve a hard nut shell to crack!

A tough job as it is. Man, my motherhood journey is getting even more exciting now!

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Do you encounter what I’m going through now?

Yes?

Then PLEASE SHARE with me what I can do to make this whole thing least nerve-breaking for us all ya!

Observe – Memorize – Execute

2010-05-24T09:00:00.002+08:00

Devan went for the cordless handset when I left it on the sofa. He took it, studied it, pressed the buttons, and placed it at his CHEEK.

I did try to correct his positioning of the handset, but he somehow couldn’t coordinate this – placing it to his ear. Anyway, he was happy to have it there.

Oh well, he will get the hang of it sooner or later. As the saying goes, practice makes prefect.

He’s one big observer. Quietly observing how we conduct ourselves, memorizing them all up, and did what we did.

This is one reason we have been reminding Dylan (and ourselves) to watch his (and our) manner as his little brother is watching, and learning at the same time.

Devan - Daddy’s Boy

2010-05-21T09:00:00.002+08:00

My 16 months old son, Devan, he’s his Daddy’s boy.

It might be largely due to the fact that he’s a second child, and the youngest in the family, the ‘treatments’ he’s been receiving from us (the parent) since birth has been quite different from his elder brother.

Plus, he ~~will be~~ is our last baby. (Our plan – two is enough.) Hence at times, we tend to be more lenient with him. For it’ll be our last time to hold a baby close, to cuddle, to feel his warmth against our skin, to smell a baby, for the last time. We want to enjoy these baby moments while we still can.

Different from his elder brother, his higher level of cheekiness and degree of observation has been giving us much joy and laugher.
Devan has always been a very affectionate and sensitive child - asking for hugs and cuddles, beams when being praised, watch his action when we rise our voice, sit on our lap treating us like a human sofa, pacify his misbehaved brother with his hugs (click Here to read on the incident). He’s such a cutie.

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I’ve caught the daddy gazing at his second son with those tender loving look numerous times. As compare to the daddy when Dylan was this little, the present one is so much loving, bearing higher tolerance towards the boys’ wailing and nonsense.

The boys have completely melted their daddy’s heart, especially Devan.

Once daddy steps into the house, he’ll be like a little puppy – where daddy goes, he follows. And he’ll follow till he’s being pick up.

Man, Devan adores his darling Papa.

And, his Papa loves him to bits.

When Bored With Toys, What’s Next?

2010-05-19T09:00:00.002+08:00

Have you encountered this situation where your kiddos were kind of bored with the toys they have been playing with on a day in day out basis?

My 16 months old does, and he has been going for his elder brother’s stuff instead of his own.

This particular day, he couldn’t seem to settle down for his dinner. And I was cracking my head on how I should distract him.

I think and think and think and think, IT got to be something new to him to keep him occupied in order to feed him easily…

Ah ha! Something caught my eyes as I was going through my cardboard. Paper flowers – those used in my scrapbooking.

Dylan joined in the fun too after Devan was done with his dinner. And the both of them spent a good 20 mins or so cooking the flowers while I washed the dishes.

It was pure pleasure - to just sit next to them, and watch. I couldn’t stop smiling.

Let the Creativity Flows

2010-05-18T09:00:00.006+08:00

Dylan has a habit – to do a card to whoever he knows with their birthday coming.

So, he was bugging me in doing one for his friend.

And his wish was granted. I decided to keep things simple for him, making it easy for a four years old to work on with minimum assistance from me.

With a mommy who’s addicted with handicrafts – scrapbooking to be exact, it’s not possible not to play with stamping, punching, and pasting. Dylan had his free play on which color tapes to use, and where to paste them on. He has the chance to choose the buttons for his little gift to his friend, and where to have them pasted.

I could see the excitement in him, the eagerness to doll up the card, and the attentiveness he showed when I gave him some ideas or simple instructions.

It was a good bonding time spent – doing craft work with my boy. You should have seen the look on his face when he gave the card to the birthday boy. He was being praised for a nice work done.

Man, silly me forgot to snap a picture of my little man’s creation!

Anyway, more cards are coming along because his Papa’s birthday will be in a month’s time, follows by mine in July. He was asking his Papa last night what color he would like his card to be. *smile*

Birth·Live·Death

2010-05-17T09:00:00.000+08:00

We were at my grandaunt’s wake last evening. It was pouring throughout our stay there, and by the time we left, the whole place was crowded with grandaunt’s family, relatives, friends and whoever is link to her in one way or another.

Having to live almost ten decades, my grandaunt had watched over her family of four generations. To many, she had a blissful life. Her mission here has completed, and I guessed she had left us with no regrets.

If there is heaven, we shall meet again, won’t we?

……

That’s life- birth, live, death. Every one of us has to go through this. Be it a short, or a long journey.

Make the best out of our everyday, while we’re still breathing.

Live our life to the fullest.

To Explore, To Nurture

2010-05-14T09:00:00.000+08:00

A child is like a gem.

A gem waiting to be found, polish and shine brightly.

With careful observation, and nurtured correctly, a child could reach great heights in his future endeavors.

Hence, plenty of parents started sending their kids to enrichment classes when they were as young as 3 months old. Whichever kind if classes you could think of, you name it, the market has it. Educational business is forever booming.

……

During our recent visit to hubby’s parent, I placed Devan in front of the electronic organ and observed how he reacted to this instrument he came in contact for the first time.

He was amazed, simply amazed by the sound produced every time he hit a key. He spent a good 30mins exploring the giant, pressing buttons and hitting bars.

I thought to myself, he might develop a passion towards music, IF we continue to expose him in this area. For, he loves to dance, moving spontaneously to tempos and rhythm whenever he hears them.

We are aware of his big brother’s interest and his huge passion in certain areas. As for Devan, there are still quite a bit of observation to be done. As for now, ALL things can easily get him excited. A little explorer on the go.

A ME Day

2010-05-13T09:00:00.004+08:00

Some of my dear friends knew I had my ME Day yesterday through Facebook, and they were so sweet to drop me a note here and there, wishing me an enjoyable day. Thanks gals! You all rocks!

And, I sure did enjoy the hours spent ALONE, away from my boys, out of the house, into the busy street, interact with strangers. I had my breather, my space, my sanity.

I even took a picture of myself using my mobile phone, wanting to capture down my look after a good charged-up. All fresh and ready-to-go!

……

There was a period during my motherhood journey where I was stressed up and lost. In summary, I was not happy. Not that I was not happy being a SAHM caring for my boys, but not being able to be me.

I had dedicated my time, 24 hours round the clock being a mother, being selfless, and devoting all my efforts for my family. Yet, I lost my inner self. I was not doing the things I would love to. I did not love myself enough. I was exhausted.

Those were the bad hair days.

……

I’ve learnt to pamper myself now!

Nothing beats to have a yoga session - stretching my muscles, listening to soothing music, taking long and deep breathes, purifying my soul and body. A little shopping therapy lifted my spirit quite abit too. *grin*

[Simple dishes - Paper wrapped chicken, fried rice, and vege with oyster sauce. Truly yumilicious!]

And to round up for the day – ME day, hubby came to pick me up in town, had our dinner at an eating place where we have wanted to visit for ages. Without the boys around, both of us was able to enjoy our dinner in peace.

All these were made possible with my mom’s help to babysit the boys. I’m so thankful for that!
Bliss!

A Rare Picture of Us

2010-05-12T09:00:00.002+08:00

Two happy little boys, and one contented mother.

This was taken just before we sent the two boys off to bed on Sunday night – Mother’s Day.

I nearly missed the chance to capture this moment with them, on a day specially dedicated to us the mommies.

We didn’t do anything special on that day. It was already late afternoon when we came home after visiting hubby’s parent, and by the evening we paid a friend a visit before having our dinner, followed by grocery shopping.

It was when I was busy hanging out the laundry in the kitchen when the thought came. Hey, I should take some pictures with the boys! It’s Mother’s Day!

So, quickly I got their Papa to be our photographer, scooped Devan up, called Dylan over, grabbed hold the two of them, and flashlights washed our faces for the next one minute.

All was done before Devan started to wiggle off my grip, and Dylan coming up with his monkey faces.

It was this challenging to take a decent photo with my little rascals.

But we managed to capture a few nice ones this time round. *smile*

A Love Note

2010-05-11T09:00:00.001+08:00

Dylan came up to me with a sheepish look – he always had that look when he was being shy.

He had that look since he got down from his school bus last Friday. And, he carried his school bag with tender care.

Once we reached home, he eagerly opened up his bag, took out a card, walked over to my side, and handed it to me as he said “Happy Mother’s Day, Mama!”

Wow, that was music to my ears.

This, I had my second Mother’s Day card from my darling boy. It was wonderful to receive a gift – be it just a simple handmade card with a funny-looking picture of me drawn by Dylan.

Well, that’s not all.

Later in the evening, my little man decided to write me a note. He asked me how to spell MOTHER.

Minutes later, he passed me a piece of paper with his handwriting on it. “This is a sunflower!” he exclaimed with a big smile.

Priceless gift from my little one.

I had it on our fridge now. So I could see this love note, everyday. *grin*

The Great St Joseph Celebration- Food & Fun Fair 2010

2010-05-10T09:00:00.003+08:00

Date: 2nd May 2010, Sunday

It was the annual Food & Fun Fair again! (Click HERE to read on our last year’s visit)

This year, we asked my brother’s family along, together with my parent. And, we set off early in the morning to have some family fun time!

The nine of us (6 adults, 2 toddlers and 1 infant) seated around the round table, had our breakfast from the food stalls before heading for the game stalls catered specially for the children.

As compared to last year, being one year older now, Dylan enjoyed the games better. He made his way happily from stalls to stalls, having a great time watching other kids played as well as having a go at some of the games himself.

There were even some water game stalls this year, which I personally find them fun. Dylan tried his luck on one of them, and he managed to get the older boy down to the water tank! Cool!

By the time we decided to call it for the day, the three of us (hubby, Dylan and I) were sweating from head to toe from the heat. It was a good thing the remaining six took cover in the shelter, listening to the Live music performance while waiting for us.

Dylan counted the point coupons he won, and went to the redemption counter to pick his reward. I had my eyes on the blubber blower – it would be fun to have one of those (I thought to myself). But guessed what, our little man chose to have a MINI toy car and a MINI helicopter!

Oh well,

Boys!

Love Being a Mother

2010-05-07T15:00:00.000+08:00

My hubby asked me before, have I thought of where I’m now.

Well, nope. Not when I was madly in love, not when I was working my butt off during my working years, and not even when I was happily married to the man in my life.

Of course I do fantasize how my life would be, but on being a mother... not really. Its as if things that are link to motherhood all came naturally with a blink of my eyes.

I had never thought I would choose to be a SAHM, and be a mother to two boys.

In fact, I believe I’m made to be a mother of boys. I’m not into girly stuff, or go ga-ga over accessories/shoes/bags etc. I’m a hands-on person who did better in my Technical Studies than Home Economics during my secondary school days. I’m the ‘Handy-mandy’ in the house.

It has been a fantastic 4 years and 4 months being a mother. Although there have been some roller coaster rides, plenty of challenges, tons of tasks to accomplish, and zillion things to attend to, I’m satisfied with what I’m blessed with.

The culture shock I had when I first became a mother, the reality of being responsible of a little human being who only knows about crying, drinking, sleeping and pooping. My life was thrown upside down - everything seems all so hazy and gloomy. All these memories make me smile whenever I think about them.

This is motherhood. The sweet and bitterness in this life-long journey.

A mother’s love is the greatest force on earth. And, I’m very proud to say I have this privilege to have it.

……

A happy Mothers’ Day to all mommies!

Give yourself a big pat on the shoulder for all that you have done for your kids and family. And, great health to you, and most importantly, to your bundles of joy! ^ ^

A New Gadget to My Not-So-Boring Life

2010-05-06T09:00:00.001+08:00

I have something new!

Nope, it’s not a camera (though I hope to). It’s a brand new mobile phone!

Ever since Devan started to lay his hands on my old one, my poor phone had been suffering much INTERNAL and EXTERIOR injury.

Not that I wish to! But if you are a mommy to a young toddler, you’ll understand that a phone can effectively keep an energize bunny still for awhile, a time just sufficient enough for you to put on a diaper on him.

If not, you shall be using your mighty strength to wrestle with a wiggling worm. Yes?

So, there were times when my old phone would fly across the room, followed by a short cry from me. Or, it would be dripping with saliva, making it all shiny and washed.

Anyway, with all the torturing done, my old phone was cracking up.

It had served me well, but it’s high time to get it replaced. For, the built-in camera was not working well, many a times in-coming calls couldn’t get in.

Furthermore, my two years mobile contract was up.

And so, I happily walked into a mobile shop to do my shopping!

Btw, I am was a loyal user of Samsung phone till I decided to jump ship, and become a fan of LG.

Well, I had no choice really, as you might know I’m a visual person, hence the look of my phone has to be of a certain standard ya.

It took me quite sometime to choose from the range of Samsung phones, yet none caught my eye, till a PINK display phone came into the picture. Slim and sleek-looking. It has a cute name – Lollipop. Ah, something special.

A set of this phone would cost me SGD28.00 with a new contract, BUT I merely spent 8 bucks to own it! Ha! All thanks to my old beloved phone with a trade-in value of SGD20.00. *grin*

And, I got to have a RED Lollipop GD580. Cool, chili red (the latest color in the market), spicy!

……

Some of you might think this is an old model. I should go for an IPhone instead. It’s the IN thing now.

Honestly, I could not make myself to spend over 700 bucks for a phone. I mean, really, a phone that allows in-coming and out-going calls, sending and receiving of sms-es, having a built-in camera that could snap decent pictures, is good enough for me.

I do not need a device that allows me to hook up with Facebook or to play online games. To me, once I’ve shut down my lappy, the time shall be dedicated to my family, instead of having any one of the family member glued to the tiny screen.

Dylan had a great time mingling with the IPhone set while we were doing our phone purchases at the shop though. He was able to navigate through the menu, and started playing ‘Cooking Mama’! Well, that was something!

No doubt it’s a great phone. BUT no thanks, I do not need it.

Dylan – His ‘Homework’

2010-05-05T09:00:00.002+08:00

On a weekly basis, Dylan’s teachers would give out a set of three word cards for him to bring home to complete over the weekend.

He would need to color the picture on each word card, and fill in the blank of the first alphabet of each word.

I must say, Dylan is enjoying this ‘homework’ of his. For, he will automatically complete the set without having me to remind him.

This should be the way for children to enjoy learning – the eagerness to learn, and to complete a task assigned to him without any reminders.

Personally, in my own opinion, what the school is giving Dylan now to work on is sufficient. No need for any worksheets or whatsoever.

All these can come later.

Our kids have plenty to be occupied by in their future academic years.

As for now, just let they play to their heart content. Learn through play.

Devan – Cooking In Style

2010-05-04T09:00:00.000+08:00

Lately, he has been helping himself with the kitchen utensils.

Opening drawers, exploring whatever he could get his hands on behind the kitchen cabinet doors. Pulling out pots and pans, drawing out spoons and forks, carry them to the living hall, and starts his cooking session.

He’ll take his plastic bowls, pick a few toys as his ‘food’, stirs around, and did some food tasting before he nod his head in satisfaction.

Of course, it’s enjoyable to watch him play. Getting himself all busy and occupied while I’m preparing meals in the kitchen.

But, it’s quite of a headache to clear up the mess after he’s done. I might find myself stepping on a fork, or knock my toes against a pot. *ouch*

Anyway, I’m not stopping him.
For he’s learning, through play. ^ ^

Love Your Everything

2010-05-03T09:00:00.001+08:00

Your tiny hand holding onto my finger tightly, your gaze when you look up at me, your tiny steps while walking beside me.

Your Everything - I LOVE them all so dearly.

No Longer a Baby

2010-04-30T09:00:00.003+08:00

He happily posed for me to take this photo. And it is very rare for him to do that, really.

He’s no longer a helpless infant crying, and sleeping most of the time.

He’s no longer the noisy alligator crawling on all fours.

He’s no longer a beginner who struggles to walk on two legs, wobbling away as he takes every little step.

He’s no longer a baby…...

The Day When IT Crawls Into Our household

2010-04-29T09:00:00.001+08:00

Some of you might have noticed I was missing in action ‘online’ for the past 3 days. All thanks to IT – Viral Fever.

Hubby was suddenly down with a big flu on Friday night, sneezing non-stop, having a bad running nose. One thing lead to another, his flu was accompanied by fever, muscle aches and fatigue.

We did whatever precaution possible, maintaining minimum contact between the father and sons. BUT, things just happen. AArrgh…

Devan woke up crying badly at 2.30am in the Monday morning. Thinking he might be having a bad dream, I reached for him in the dark to put him back to sleep. He was HOT! Uh oh, not this!

His body temperature was 39.8ºC! He was never this high. (This was the second time he was sick since birth.)

Quickly, I woke up hubby and got him to hold Devan while I feed him some Paracetamol. What happened next was… ‘Merlion’. He puked. Hiaz…

I got him washed and fed him another round of Paracetamol. Keeping my fingers and toes crossed thought the night for his temperature to drop.

Both of us had a bad night.

Good things come in double, and so are the bad ones. Dylan was detected feverish while getting ready for school at 7am. His highest record of 39.2ºC.

Oh man.

Great, I had two sick kids with me now. The elder one was super lethargic, rejecting all food (including his favorite ones) and wanted to sleep all the while. The youngest one was extremely cranky.

A trip to their PD was made in the afternoon, and medications were prescribed. Improvement was seen by late evening. Thank goodness.

Yet, things were not over. I was down with a bad headache, running nose, body aches and high fever on Tuesday morning.

What will I do if my mom is not around to help out? I’m so blessed to have her.

While I was practically sleeping the whole day away with zero energy and zero appetite, trying to nurse back my health at the fastest rate, my mom was busy looking after the boys. I’m so thankful.

Now, the boys are all well, while I’m doing good with a mild sore throat.

And,

I hope everyone of you and your family are in the pink of health too. ^ ^

Yet another Spaghetti Recipe

2010-04-26T09:00:00.003+08:00

You will find packages and packages of pasta in my kitchen drawer. All for the reason that they are easy to cook up a delicious meal, plus Dylan and I simply LOVE them!

This particular day, I was in the mood to cook.

And so, I got myself busy in the kitchen, preparing both me and Dylan’s lunch while cooking Devan’s meal. You know, baby food – porridge, porridge, and still PORRIDGE. Poor kid, deprive from all the yummy food in the whole wide world (for now).

Oh well, he’s not complaining!

Okay, back to my recipe.

What can one mommy ask for when she prepares a meal for the family? Number 1 – all food cleared (all plate licked clean). Number 2 – Family asking for more helpings, thumbs-up on the food.

I was rewarded with both of them that day serving this to Dylan. *grin*

Ingredients:
Pasta – Vermicelli, a big handful of them
Broccoli
Capsicum (Bell pepper), red one
Mushroom (pardon me for not knowing the actual name of this particular one I used in the recipe)
Garlic

Seasoning:
Extra virgin olive oil, unsalted butter, sea salt, parsley.

1. Cut and slice broccoli, capsicum and mushroom to desire size. Chop the garlic.
2. Boil some water in a wide-base pan.
3. When water comes to boil, add some olive oil and sea salt. Throw in the pasta and cook for 3 mins.
4. Pour in broccoli and bring to boil.
5. Drain away the water with a drainer. Set aside the pasta and broccoli.
6. Using the same pan, melt the unsalted butter, throw in the garlic and stir-fry them.
7. Add in the capsicum, follow by mushroom. After a min or so, pour the pasta and broccoli back into the pan together with the rest of the ingredients. Sprinkle some parsley. Season with sea salt to taste.
8. Stir-fry for about 1 min. Dish out and ready to serve!

I hope this yummy-looking food (it taste good too!) drive some of your Monday blues away. *smile*

We - One Year Ago

2010-04-23T09:00:00.002+08:00

I was going through my huge collection of photographs to do some print-outs when I came across this particular one.

For the next 5 mins or so, I was staring at this photo on my monitor. I thought to myself, Gee, He was so TINY! I had kind of forgotten how tiny he once was.

Now, Devan’s double the size of who he was one year ago. Dylan was slightly over 100cm tall then, and for the past one year he had add-on 12cm. As for both hubby and I, well, we look more or less the same.

Kids, they are growing at an amazing rate. While we, are aging by every second.

Time flies, giving no mercy to anyone. Telling us time is clicking away and no way to get them back.

For sure, I’ll feel the same way one year from today, and be amaze once again by how much my kids have grown by then.

The privilege to stay home and care for the boys, being with them, witnessing their learning journey, watching them grow, it’s truly a blessing.

ps - I had scrapped this photo! To view it, click HERE to visit my scrapbooking blog. ^ ^

Earth Day – 22nd April 2010

2010-04-22T09:00:00.005+08:00

Yet another event aiming to create awareness to the public. We had our Earth Hour a month ago (click HERE to read on my way of celebrating Earth Hour) and here comes our Earth Day!

Honestly, shouldn’t we have Earth Day everyday? Rather than just once a year? How effective is this annual event by-the-way?

[Dylan turning off the light after using the bathroom.]

Take a closer look around you, if you are in a cooperate office, are there many machines on stand-by mode day in day out and over the weekends? Are you aware how much electricity is wasted?

Right, you are not the one paying the bills. It’s your boss. But, who is responsible for our earth?

If you’re at home, do you leave the lights on even when you are not in the room? Are electrical appliances plug to the power sockets with the power switches on? Do you need to on the air-con in order to sleep every night?

All these are habits - poor habits that are causing harm to us in every little way.

Well, you might say, what’s the big hoohah of this ‘Saving the Earth’ campaign anyway? There are bigger things waiting for me!

Take a second, think again. This is NOT for you, Not for me, BUT for the many generations after us.

It won’t hurt to take that extra step to switch off the power or switches before you leave. It won’t hurt too to use recycle grocery bags. It also won’t hurt to take a minute to consolidate items for recycling than to mindlessly dump everything into the rubbish bin.

Right, you might not give it a damn. Who cares anyway? But I care, and I know there are plenty of people out there who are willing to care. Every effort counts.

Our country is not doing enough, we can do so much yet we are not. For example, IF only ALL the lights in HDB corridors are replaced with sensor activation ones, how much electricity can we save on? IF only areas like CBD (Central Business District) dim down their lights over the weekends when it is literally a ghost town. How much resource can we save on?

As parent, I’m doing my job to educate my children to care for his environment. Starts young. Let the appreciation and awareness grow within them.

It’s only when these practices become a part of us, there will then truly be an Earth Day, Everyday.

Birthday Celebration at Sakae Sushi

2010-04-21T09:00:00.008+08:00

Location: Sakae Sushi, TradeHub 21

My dad turns 57 today! 爸，生日快乐！Happy Birthday Pa!

We had the celebration earlier over the weekend as my brother was scheduled for night shift today.

The location was decided by no other but ME. Ha!

[Left- Entries to the three private rooms, Right- Devan’s shoes placed outside the room.]

When my mum asked me where we shall go for the celebration, this particular place came to my mind. Reasons being – My parent has always been open to Japanese cuisine, while Dylan and I LOVE it. This branch has private rooms where we need to remove our footwear to enter, hence the kids can mingle around in the room while we adults get to sit down to enjoy our meals without the fear of the little ones wondered out of our sight. Next is the BIG plus point, they have a well-equip outdoor playground where we can easily access from our room by a sliding door. Cool isn’t it?

[Left- Interior of the private room, Right- The Playground.]

For parent like us having young kids, dining out can be really taxing. But with a family orientated restaurant, we can have our meal in peace. Kids get to play, we adults get to eat.

So there we were, a jolly good time spent together! Yeah!

I lost track of how many dishes we had ordered, but one thing for sure, we all filled our stomachs till the max! Dylan ate to his heart content too, helping himself to the sushi and many side dishes. This boy of mine sure can eat!

[Clockwise from top left- Handroll – Softshell crab, Party Set – Grande, Yakimono Moriawase& Salmon Belly Spicy Kimuchi Kaminabe (at the back), close-up of Asparagus wrap with Salmon.]

While we were half-way through our food, Dylan was done and he requested to play at the playground. Request granted, off he went to have some fun while I snapped some pictures of him.

Devan and my 9 months old niece joined us shortly. I deposit Devan into the ball pit and he went crazy! My 1 year old dived himself into the pool of balls, he was practically screaming in joy! Oh my, I had not seemed him like this when in a new environment.

The playground really gave us some breather and seeing the kiddos played to their fullest is so satisfying.

We managed to clear all the food and ended our dinner with a durian cake – my dad’s favorite. No kidding, I thought I was going to burst with all the food inside me. Sinful it is, but I like it! Ha!

The food, no doubt, they were so yumilicious! The place, thumbs-up! The people, I LOVE you all!

Great food, great company = happiness! ^ ^

Ps- To book for the private room, a minimum spending of SGD100 has to be applied. Otherwise a SGD10 will be charged.

Mama, Can I Marry You? (Part 2)

2010-04-20T09:00:00.001+08:00

For those of you who have been following my blog OR had came across PART 1 (click HERE for details of Part 1), here’s how the story continues –

As I was having my late dinner after putting Devan to bed, Dylan came over to me and hugged me from the side.

Dylan: “Mama, I like you. I LOVE you.”
Me: “Thank you!” *grinning*
Dylan: “Mama, can I marry you?” (oh boy, there he goes again!)
Me: “Why?”

He walked over to the other side of the dining table, sat down, arms rested on the table, and looked at me.

Dylan: “When I 32 years old, can I marry you?”
Me: “Well, by then you’ll find someone you love and get marry.”
Dylan: “When I 32 years old, can I marry you?” (He repeated his question again.)

I looked at him. Wait a minute, he was serious on what he was asking! And, he wanted an answer from me.
By now, his Papa over-heard our conversation and joined in.

Hubby: “You can marry me!”
Dylan: “But man and man cannot get marry.” (with such seriousness and certainty on his face.)
Hubby: “Oh yes. You’re right.” *laugh*
Dylan: “When I 32 years old, can I marry you Mama?” (He repeated his question for the third time.)
Me: “Hmm… If I’m still around by then.” *smile*
Dylan: “Oh. Ok.” (Satisfied. He left the table and continues with his play.)

His words made my day really, for I had a taxing day busy touching up the boys’ room, and Devan was a whining baby since after his afternoon nap.

He made me smile. Although his question doesn’t make much sense, his intention touched me deep. For I know, I stands a very important part in his heart.

Grocery Shopping With the Boys

2010-04-19T09:00:00.000+08:00

We were running out of some stuff in the house, and so I decided we shall all (all 4 of us) make a trip to the grocery store after our dinner.

It was a warm evening, hence not a bad idea to get out of the house and go for some cool air.

Normally, and usually, it was a 5 mins walk to the grocery store, BUT because Dylan insisted to HOLD HAND with Devan, it turned out to be a 10 mins walk. Not a problem really, just that both hubby and me had to walk real SLOW. Devan was thrilled to be walking on his own – stopping as and when he wanted, making a detour when something caught his eye, or to stop suddenly to pick out a dried leave from the ground.

Dylan was having quite a hard time navigating his little brother. Surprisingly, he displayed a high level of patience with Devan there and then – speaking to him gently while holding tight to his hand, for fear of Devan to wonder off on his own and got himself lost.

Finally we managed to reach the store, and we spent a good 30 mins or so just to pick up a few items.

Our youngest rascal was very excited, for it was his first experience wondering on his feet in the grocery store. He touched everything and anything he could reach for, and tried to stuff them into his mouth. All the while he was close supervision from his big brother. And, Dylan managed to hold onto his brother all those time. *smile*

That evening - It was a time well spent as a family, although we took nearly an hour to make it back home!

Come, Let Me Give You a Bear Hug

2010-04-16T09:00:00.001+08:00

Just the other day, I pulled out the walking Winnie The Phoon Bear out of the toy box and passed to Devan. The minute he saw it walking, he fell in love with it. He was simply amazed by something smaller than him to be walking on two legs and talks. A toy I bought back in 2006 during a warehouse sale.

Devan turns 15 months old today!

My little man, who’s all so ready for a hug, a very affectionate boy who constantly melts my heart.

He would climb up our bed in the morning, crawled up to me, and planted a kiss on my lip. He would lean against me, rubbing his head against my body, asking for hugs and cuddles. He would, stand by the gate waiting for me to put on his shoe when I said we are going to fetch his big brother. He would, automatically walk to the bathroom to have his feet wash after a trip from outside.

And, he’s not always the sweet little angel. For there were times he would throw tantrums, scream, protest, just being plain difficult to handle.

Well,

Son, I’m still waiting for you to call me!

Voluntary Child Labor

2010-04-15T09:00:00.005+08:00

Does all little kids love to help out in the house? Be it mopping the floor, hanging out the laundry, folding the cloths, does some cooking in the kitchen.

Yes?

Dylan is, and so is Devan.

Just the other day, I was cleaning the floor, and this little guy came over, demanding to take over the task from me. And well, I let him took control of the mop, which is a detachable mop make up from 4 individual bars.

And so he happily used his mighty strength to mop the floor. He must be observing me for quite sometime now, because he was doing a great job! Obviously he’s been learning from us with his eyes.

But, the thing is, the mop was way too long for him to have full control over it. He was struggling. Tiny water droplets started to appear on his forehead.

I offered to help him shorten the mop, but he rejected. He must have thought I was trying to take it away from him. Still, I quickly made the change, grabbed onto the mop firmly, detached 2 bars off, and snapped the handle bar back on, before Devan screamed at me.

At last, he had the mop catered just nice for his height. He did his job diligently for the next 8 mins or so, before he realized it was kind of boring and decided to leave the mop alone.
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It’s good to let little kids help around in the house, be it just a simple task. Never to think they are too small for it - for they are willing, and eager to help. The satisfying look on their face when being praise for a job well-done, their confidence level increases dramatically too.

It’s wise to train boys to be little helpers in the house, for when they have their own family one day, the culture shock won’t comes as a big blow. For I had known of many married male friends, they are struggling with the responsibility of housekeeping. To man who NEVER lift a finger to help out in the house, it might be highly possible for them to suffer ‘physically’ and ‘emotionally’ once they said their wedding vow!

The man would rather work than to be nagged by their wives on putting in some effort in housework. They would also rather out-source for manpower than to squat in front of a toilet bowl cleaning it. Yes?

Anyway, I’m cultivating my boys - to be good husbands to their future wives.

As for now, they shall be my little helpers in the house. ^ ^

Hush Hush My Dear Naughty Brother

2010-04-14T09:00:00.003+08:00

*I took these pictures while using my mighty strength NOT to laugh. What an evil mommy I am!

Here’s what happened – Dylan was pushing his limit while turning his baby brother’s activity table upside down, playing with the leg supports (I’ve no idea what’s so fun about this anyway), while Devan sat close, observing what his big brother was up to.

I gave my first warning, came the second one, and the third followed minutes later. All those while I made sure Dylan heard me, the warnings for him meant business, and he shouldn’t ignore them.

Anyway, he DID ignore, and that’s that. One of my thumb rules in disciplining my kids is to give three warnings, plus explaining the reason why this or that shouldn’t be done.

Since he chose to NOT LISTEN, he shall be disciple. For the last thing I wish for to happen was to have anyone of them to hit their head, eyes or lip, howl their heart out, and lose some blood along the way. Or, to have Devan picking up these bad behaviors, as we know, monkey see monkey do.

So, Dylan’s hand was smacked, and he cried as what I expected (for a good 1 minute or so).

What came next was unexpected.

His baby brother came up to him, extended his arms out, and tried to pacify his big brother.

Gee, that’s really sweet of him!
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I wish this pair of brothers will be the best buddies for life, looking after one another, and love each other unconditionally.

Just like what Devan did to his big brother - although his brother misbehaved, and bullied him at times, he still will comfort and love him, like any siblings would.

Dylan – I Draw This!

2010-04-13T09:00:00.003+08:00

My little man woke up from his afternoon nap, saw me working at my lappy, he asked if he could play one of his favorite online game.

As I was searching for the link to connect us up, Dylan saw my blog. He exclaimed excitingly while pointing to the screen, “Mama, my drawing is here!”

Well, yes! For those who have been reading my blog, you should have noticed a change in my blog header.

I had always wanted something personal, unique, and of memorable values to be in my header.

Now, I finally have a blog header that I could proudly call my own! *grin* I designed it!

Noticed the four stickmen in my header? As well as the four handprints on the right?

Dylan drew the stickmen, naming each of them with our names. And, the handprints, they are Dylan’s and Devan’s. *smile*

The new look – I like!

Devan – He Finally Decided

2010-04-12T09:00:00.001+08:00

If you have been reading my blog, you might remember one of my blog post mentioning Devan drinking strawberry milk shake with a straw (Click Here to read on it).

Unfortunately, it was only a one-time thingy, never happen again when I offered him a drink with straw. It would be insane to always bribe him with sweet drinks just to get him suck too.

And so, I decided to wait, to wait for him to be ready. I wait and wait and wait and wait…

The day finally came when I observed him wanting to suck from his milk bottle teat while sitting upright, taking in quite a bit of air along the way when he does that. But, this is not the important part, the thing is he might be ready!
Excitedly, I prepared his Pigeon Mag Mag Step 3 drink cup, filled it up with water, and passed it to him… Without hesitation, he took his first sip, gave me a satisfied look, and a big grin. *smile*

Yes! Goodbye to that head-up position when he needed a drink from his bottle. Now, he can happily drink while walking.

Cool It Mommy

2010-04-09T09:00:00.001+08:00

For the past one week or so, I was kind of thrown off the road, not the usual systematic ME.

Things seem to be in a mess, for half the time when I’m busy with whatever I’m doing, my brain was working through the extremely long To-Do-List, killing lots of brain cells along the way. Thinking and planning what’s next to come and by when I should have it settled blah blah blah…

BUT, I clearly forgotten the plan minutes later, and went off to clear whatever came to my mind, only ended up slapping my forehead when the memory came back.

It’s frustrating; a sense of helplessness lingers along too.

I know I can do better than this, yet it seems my mind was having a little issue – the urge of wanting to get as many things done in the shortest time possible.

Me being too ambitious? Perhaps …

There is always a limitation to one’s ability, no matter how multi-tasking one can be. With only one body, one couldn’t be at two different places at the same time.

Yes?

A tips I read from somewhere before – in order to get things done at a faster rate, settle one at a time. Just like spring cleaning a house, do it room by room, and in no time you will have the time to rest your feet high.

So, I decided to draw out a time-table for myself, and get myself organize once again.

Seems like I’m back to the old school days where my daily routine is drawn out in a time-table. But, well… this might just do the trick! ^ ^

Oreo Cupcakes

2010-04-08T09:00:00.011+08:00

My baking engine is now ON! Yeah!

I had stopped baking (not including the times where I baked some home-made pizza) for a year at least. And, guess who was all excited about it when I announced I’ll be doing some cupcakes…

Dylan is the happiest of all – for he got to help out in the kitchen, and most importantly, EAT the cupcakes!

This time round, I reduced the amount of oreo biscuit to about 60gm instead of the 100gm indicated. Not that I purposely cut down on the amount, but I ran out of oreo biscuits!

STILL, the cupcakes came out nice! Not as sweet as to what we had before, yet still plenty of oreo biscuit chips in every cupcakes.

I like!

And, the aftermath of a baking session in the morning - my house smelled so buttery, which includes me. *grin*

Ingredients:
Self raising flour, 235gm
Oreo biscuits – chopped, 100gm
Unsalted butter, 230gm
Egg, 4 nos.
Sugar, 180gm
Salt, ¼ tsp

1. Mix butter, salt, sugar till slightly creamy.
2. Add in eggs and flour (sieved), mix at higher speed till smooth and pale. About 2 – 3 mins.
3. Stir in chopped biscuits and spoon into cups.
4. Bake at 190ºC for about 20 minutes.
5. Remove from oven and ready to serve.

Produce 16 cupcakes.

Lean On Me

2010-04-07T09:00:00.004+08:00

It was coming to 6pm, Devan had his porridge, changed into a fresh diaper, and was sent off to wake up Dylan from his nap.

He would pat his brother gently, just like what he always did to me in the morning when his Papa carried him to our bed.

But, for the first time, he leans against his brother fondly.

Ah... That’s love, the love-and-hate relationship between the boys, a bond that tie them together, forever.

Photograph ‘Makeover’

2010-04-06T09:00:00.011+08:00

First of all, I’m not a professional photographer but one who had learnt basic photography skill during my studies in Interior Design.

Hence, what I share here is basically based on my knowledge, skills and tips I always practice, observed, and imparted to me by other photography experts.

In my previous post, I mentioned people do asked me whether I edit my blog photos. And, do I use a point-and-shoot camera or DSLR when taking my photos.

Yes, I do edit before posting them up. It all started back in August last year that I decided to edit my photos, reason being – prettier photos make my blog NICER, as simple as that!

I’m a visual person, being highly attracted to graphics and images, and easily distracted when facing chunks of words and figures. That explains why I hate literature, and failed my History in my ‘O’ levels. *blush*

So, what did I do to my photos?

I use Photoshop, and Picasa software to perform my editing. Basically resizing, cropping (if necessary), adjustment of saturation, color, highlights, contrast, sharpness etc.

Here’s a before and after photo of Devan pointing out to the pouring rain one afternoon, everything was foggy and more than half of his face was covered with shadow (my camera mostly in manual mode, without the flash on). It was neither a nice nor attractive photo since everything seems so dark and misty.

BUT, after a ‘makeover’, dang dang dang dang, we have a better picture now! One that I’m happy to share with you all. *grin*

I own both a point-and-shoot camera (Canon IXUS 85 IS) and DSLR (Olympus E300), and 99.9% of the time I’m armed with my Canon camera. To a Mom with two active kids, having a compact point-and-shoot camera is of a wiser choice – handy and always ready to be on-the-go.
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A photo speaks a thousand words, and I believe capturing the moments and refining them serve a better purpose. Though it’s extra work, the effort is all worthwhile because I get to have prettier photos for my blog and scrapbooking!

Bloggers’ Symposium – FUN!

2010-04-05T09:00:00.004+08:00

Everything was so new and fresh to me – the people, the event. And, it’s FUN! I learnt quite a few tips too (thanks Leonny)!

It was a fruitful afternoon – met other bloggers in-person, learnt new knowledge, catch up with a girlfriend who too attended this event. It was so kind of her for the free rides, and her great company. Thanks Ky!

Were you there? NO? Too bad! You missed the fun. Hee.

And, I did not win the Canon PowerShot S90.. boohoo. I wish I had! It’ll be wonderful to own one so I could take even better pictures! Oh well, I’m just not lucky enough to have it. Will have to work for it then! *smile*

During the Parenting Photography Workshop, we learnt the thumb rules of capturing pictures, especially pictures of children.

[This was taken by Leonny with my point-and-shoot camera.]

And, Leonny shared on useful tips in editing pictures, making them even prettier for all to see!
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By-the-way, I do have friends and readers asking whether I edit my photos before posting them up. And, do I use a point-and-shoot camera or DSLR when taking my pictures?

Hmm, I share with you all on another blog post, perhaps? ^ ^

For my previous post on Bloggers’ Symposium, click Here.

How Much Does a Baby Cost?

2010-04-01T09:00:00.002+08:00

It was a warm afternoon, I was scrapbooking a layout, while Devan was running through my scrapping materials, playing with bags of embellishments, tossing them across the floor.

After I’m done with my little work, we moved to the living hall where he continued with his play, and I played along with him. Just then, something on his arm caught my eyes – a price tag.

Hey hey hey, my baby costs 1 DOLLAR! Wow! Isn’t that… EXTREMELY AFFORDABLE?

He must have caught it earlier while playing with my stuff. Ha! For a moment, he seems to be a LIVE merchandise really to be purchase off the rack!
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Out of curiosity, I googled on ‘How Much Does a Baby Cost’. A long list of links appeared on my monitor and some are really interested. There is even online Baby Cost Calculator!

Based on statistic, we can easily hit 5 figures for a baby’s first year. No wonder many commented it’s costly to raise a child in today’s society.

But, of course, the cost issue is nothing when compares with the joy and pleasure a baby brings!

Walk With Me

2010-03-31T09:00:00.001+08:00

Pardon me for sharing a R(A) rated photo! I’ve been pondering for quite awhile whether to or not to blog on this, for Dylan might hate me for what I’m doing right now.

It was a warm afternoon, and the brothers were all sweaty and noisy from their games. So, I decided to send them off for a shower to cool off abit. Both of them eagerly got ready for some water play - Dylan in his birthday suite and Devan in his diaper, walking side by side toward our bathroom.

The big brother held onto his baby brother’s hand tightly, guiding him towards the bathroom, walking at a slow pace to compromise Devan’s tiny steps.

Devan was grinning while being lead by his brother, taking each step confidently, as if he knew he would not fall because Dylan was there with him.

Isn’t this what sibling love is all about? Being there for one another. Although they do fight and have disagreements zillion times in a day, they’re an important part of each other’s life.

Earth Hour Celebration

2010-03-30T09:00:00.004+08:00

My dear friend, Sophia, invited us over to her place for a dinner on Saturday, which was, Earth Hour - the world’s largest global climate change initiative!

So cool! While many went down town to celebrate the lights out in large scale, two families came together in celebrating this meaningful event, at the comfort of a new home plus a yumilicious dinner.

When the clock strike 8.30pm, lights out! We were in total darkness! Ahem, not really though, as the LCD TV was on and light came in from the corridor (our government will never go to the extend to have our residential estates in darkness).

And, we had fun being in the darkness! Especially for Dylan and Daren (Sophia’s boy). They practically went wild, chasing each other in the dark, each holding a torch, screaming, and laughing. Devan was casually moving around the compound, totally not being affected by the lack of light.

I used the bathroom in candlelight, the boys had their homemade yoghurt in candlelight, Devan played the toys and had his milk in the dark and we adults were happily chatting away. How cool is that! Hmm, and romantic too! ^ ^

So, did you lights out too?

Ps- apologize for the poor images. I used a point-and-shoot camera, and off the flash mode too, hence most photos turn out blurry.

A Crush At 32

2010-03-29T09:00:00.007+08:00

Remember the time when you would quietly steal a glance at that someone special, hoping he would notice you yet scared the hell out of you when he looked your way? That’s a crush – something that could make you daydream for the whole day, lost in your own fantasy.

I had one, when in my Primary school days. A crush that lasted for 4 years. Was he aware? Nope, I don’t think so, at least not to my knowledge!

Now, right NOW,

I’m having a crush. YES! It’s true!

Have to admit, I feel something for someone of the opposite sex, beside my husband. And, someone that’s 10 years younger than me! Gosh, I wish that’s not true but sure enough it is.

Am I being unfaithful to my man?

Neh, it’s just a crush right? A harmless fantasy I’m having now. If, we really have to point fingers and put the blame on someone, it’s my girlfriends. They were the ones who highly promote this Korea drama series – You’re Beautiful.

Yes, you heard me. This man is the leading role in this drama series – Jang Geun Suk.

Isn’t he adorable? He’s real gorgeous ya! And, I simply love his smile! *blush*

I’m feeling like a teenage girl all over again! It feels great, this shows I’m still young (at heart).

As for Tom Cruise? Brad Pitt? Erm, I’m for younger man now!
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If you’re into Korea Drama, do catch You’re Beautiful. It’s all about romance and comedy. And, the songs are fantastic. ^ ^

Udon Miso Soup

2010-03-26T09:00:00.002+08:00

Dylan loves udon, any dish that comes with it he will finish up fast, and by just looking at him diving into his food, I’m a satisfied mommy.

This is a quick and easy meal to prepare for the little one, it’s a nutritious meal too – consists of carbo, vege, protein, and minerals.

Ingredients:
1 pack of udon noodle
Carrot
Mince meat
Leek
Miso (ready packed miso paste)

Seasoning:
No seasoning for this dish. As all the ingredients has their own sweetness, and the miso paste contains salt.

1. Boil some water, amount enough to submerge the udon.
2. Slice the carrot and leek (thickness to individual preference).
3. Once the water boils, throw in a tablespoon of miso paste. Stir till dissolve.
4. Pour in the carrot to boil.
5. Next, throw in udon, leek and mince meat.
6. Cook till boil, and ready to serve.

Enjoy!

Curious Tots – Presented by OKTO

2010-03-25T09:00:00.003+08:00

Dylan and I were there last Friday, it was our second time attending this annual event – organized by Okto, in partnership with Friso. I must say, this year was so much better than the previous.

Okto is our local TV kids’ channel, often organizing events, contests and lots of educational programs. My 4 years old is a big fan of Okto!

So, it was our rare play-date, just the both of us, while my mom babysits Devan.

During the event, crowns were distributed to the kids, not only for them to wear them on their head but be rewarded with stickers after completing each activity stations. Once 6 stickers were collected, a little souvenir was given out to our little ones – a height measuring chart. There were giant puzzles, giant bowling alley, giant coloring banner, everything was customized in huge sizes, fun to play with and easy for all to gather around to see.

Most importantly, the event was held in an air-condition space! Unlike the previous year where it was held in the open, the heat was unbearable, the babies were feeling all sticky and grouchy.

This time round, we had fun. Dylan enjoyed the most, as he got to have balloons (one for himself and one for his little brother) and PLAY to his heart content!

And, he was rewarded with an ice-cream cone before we took a bus ride home!

A Photograph of the Brothers

2010-03-24T09:00:00.001+08:00

I believe only a SAHM with young boys will truly understand what I’m dealing with on an everyday basis – the chaotic time I have while the 2 rascals are awake.

Hurricanes constantly pay us visits – by now, I’m numb by the mess, in fact, there’s no point cleaning up when minutes later another wave of hurricane will run over my tiny apartment.

Dylan’s 4 years and 2 months, while Devan’s 14 months. It seems near to impossible to capture a decent picture of the both of them together. Either one will look away, or the elder one does his monkey act, or the younger one reaching for the camera. The pictures always turn out disastrous or far from ideal.

They couldn’t sit still; they couldn’t pause for 2 seconds for me to hit the button that controls the shutter. I kind of have given up the thought of putting both of them together to snap a picture for keepsake.

Just when will they obediently listen to my requests when I say, “OK, look HERE. SMILE!!” and really follows through? Next Christmas, perhaps?

Does this only happen with boys? My girlfriends’ daughters LOVE to POSE in front of camera!

Anyway, just days ago, I managed to get both of them into the picture! It turns out good – not blur, no crying, no wrestling, wide awake, both of them side by side as still as a statue. Yeah!

Erm, although it’s their back-view!

Earth Hour – 27th March 2010, 8.30PM

2010-03-23T09:00:00.004+08:00

A SMS came in. It says: Join us in Earth Hour 2010. Switch off your lights on 27th March from 8.30pm to 9.30pm. Visit www.earthhour.org for details.

And, I did. I checked on the website, read the information, and pledged to be a part of the world’s largest global climate change initiative.

Although deep in my heart, I know the 60 mins of lights-out is not sufficient to fight against climate change. BUT it is a good start, a good intention and perhaps an effective way of creating awareness of what our DO-ings are greatly affecting our mother earth.

It all started out in 2007 in Sydney, Australia when 2.2 million homes and businesses turned their lights off for one hour to make their stand against climate change. From then on, it has become a global sustainability movement involving over 4000 cities in 88 countries!

Now, we can do better than that! Don’t we?

Fighting against climate change is a daily matter – all for the sake of a better environment for all generations to come. We only have ONE planet to live in, and very ashamed to say, we’re destroying her with our very own hands. Each and every one of us are responsible for the mess we are facing now – the haywire weather, the natural disasters, the hash environment. The threats are terrifying.

It’s scary, if you ask me – the possibility of our earth breaking down, billions of people losing their lives…

I’m doing my part, and I’m teaching my kids to be part of this urgent global issue.

Are you too? No? Why not?

Too troublesome? Wasting of efforts? This does not concern you?

Think again. Every effort counts.

Nothing is impossible when there is the presence of willingness – the willingness to save and preserve a healthier world for our children (and their future).
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Please help to spread this initiative event to whoever you know – blog about it, talk about it, share about it over Facebook and Twitter!

SO, are you in to do your part? I do wish the answer is a big YES!

PS – Do spare some time to go through the website (click HERE), and remember to watch the third video (click HERE) – a girl making her speech on behalf of the Environmental Children’s Organization during the United Nations Conference 1992. Brilliant!

Lovely Day at the Zoo

2010-03-22T17:06:00.000+08:00

During the one week school holiday, we went to the Singapore Zoo. And, this time round, it was so much more fun than the last visit. Main reason – Devan behaved so well! No wailing, no fussing. How wonderful!

We had a heavy breakfast, caught the 11am Splash Safari Show, took a tram ride and had some fun at the Rainforest Kidzworld. It was our first time on the tram! Since now that we’re the ‘Friends of The Zoo’, we can enjoy FREE tram rides during the weekdays. If not, you just got to pay and we’re one stingy parent who rather walks on our two feet. Haha.

Anyway, we did not go for the water play, instead we discovered another fun area within the Rainforest Kidzworld. There is this Tug Boat station where the kids got to travel from point A to point B by pulling the tug boat across the pool with a rope. It looks fun. Dylan and his Papa had a round at it before they came to me excitingly to share on what they had done, I too went over and noticed more and more kids (including some parents) crowded around to have their turn.

I wanted to snap a picture of Dylan on it, but we decided to abort the plan - the long queue. We moved on to the Rainforest Challenge area where many obstacle stations are situated. There was particularly no one around. The whole place was ours, and Dylan had a great time conquering each stations. I could just see his confident level raised to the next level whenever he completed one.

Devan got to get down, to stretch his legs. He was beaming away when he was lowered to the ground, held on to my hand tightly and does his walk - wobbling, yet so eager to take every single step. Cute!

With a lovely weather, fantastic place, and great companions. What more can I ask for? *grin*
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To read on our previous Zoo visit, click HERE.

The Aftermath of a F1 Race

2010-03-18T23:53:00.001+08:00

On Wednesday, we paid the Zoo a visit. We have lots of fun - Dylan was a happy chap and Devan was behaving very well despite skipping his morning nap. We all enjoyed ourselves that day.

As we were leaving, Dylan suggested having a F1 race with his Papa. So, both of them got ready, get set, GO! Off the father and son speeded off, disappeared from my sight as they made their turn round the corner, while I was left behind, pushing the stroller with Devan in it, enjoying the cool breeze against my cheek.

By the time I saw the boys, Dylan was brushing his kneecaps. Ah, he must have fallen during his race.

He was all teary when I reached him, asking me to stop the bleeding and pain. I did a quick check on his wounds - they were not deep but bleeding. Quickly, I cleaned them up, pasted on the plasters and said some comforting words to my little boy.

For the rest of the journey back to our car, he was moody, checking on his kneecaps whenever he could.

So, you see, that’s my boy – easily being upset and getting all teary even with a small cut on his finger or a tiny wound from a fall. He’ll keep shaking his hand or leg, as if trying his best to shake off the pain.

Bruises to him are no big deal, but a cut of 0.01mm can easily get him all worked-up!

Devan: 14 Months Update

2010-03-17T23:02:00.000+08:00

He’s walking! Taking tiny steps around the house, wobbling, waving, smiling along the way, possible to topple over at anytime. He will raises his arms at an angle of 130, making his way around, simply delighted with his new found skill. Truly adorable! He still crawls, still swings his head from side to side, still is my happy-go-lucky alligator.

Now, he owns 4 sets of teeth, displaying each and every one of them when he grins. Honestly, I kind of miss his toothless grins.

I think Devan is bored being at home most of the time, because he seems delighted whenever we get out – waving his hand happily while we were at the doorstep preparing to leave.

While at home, he will turn my kitchen upside down, opening drawers, take whatever’s inside, put them back in again (in a mess), slam the drawers, open them up again, transport whatever he could get hold of and load them into the washing machine. Ok, great, the kitchen has turned into his (another) playground.

He’ll climb up the couch, lay flat on his tummy, peeks at me and gives me a cheeky smile. Or, he’ll hide behind the wall and peeks at me, gives me his most stunning smile and speeds off, squealing delightfully. Gee, he makes me so madly in love with him! Absolutely 100% head over heels for this little fellow!

And, argh… he calls ME AH! AH, when he wants my attention. AH, when he needs me to open a box or a toy for him. Just when will he call me MAMA? Son, I’m waiting!

Baby in the Morning Sun

2010-03-16T23:36:00.000+08:00

It’s the time of the year where the sun ray will light our kitchen, casting a bright yellow color on the kitchen floor.

Devan was fascinated by what he saw on the floor, and was even amazed by his own shadows.

Just look at him, I’m lost of words to describe…… but quietly enjoy the morning sun with him.

His Virgin Ride In a Baby Walker

2010-03-15T23:22:00.001+08:00

Yes, it was Devan’s first to be in a baby walker, at 14 months.

And, no, the baby walker doesn’t belong to him. It’s a hand-me-down to his cousin who’s 6 months younger.

For the next 15 mins or so, he just stood there inside the walker without shifting an inch, thinking it was another exersaucer similar to the one we have at home. Then, he started to fuss, as he thought he couldn’t reach for the toys while being trapped in the walker. He even got a scare when the walker suddenly moved and we adults had a good laugh out of it.

Anyway, he doesn’t like it, not when he’s able to patrol the house on 2 feet now!

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I don’t use baby walker for my kiddos, Dylan had never been in one, while Devan had a taste of it just recently.

When Dylan came along 4 years ago, my mom and I had been debating of getting a walker, mostly out of the benefit of convenience for my mom when she babysits Dylan. But I stood my ground, NO baby walker.

I was warned of the potential danger of using a baby walker. Some countries even ban them, just imagine that. (For details of baby walker, click HERE)

Instead we got an exersaucer for our little chap, a good investment indeed.

One Tub, Two Boys

2010-03-12T23:54:00.000+08:00

They fight, they scream, they bully each other. Still, they’re the best buddy ever, a strong bond shared between the two.

Just 2 days ago, I suggested to Dylan to take his shower together with his little brother. I had them washed and both of them happily squeezed into the tiny baby bathtub and had an awesome splashing fun. They laugh, they giggle and they splash big time. It looks pathetic (the bathtub) - no extra space to stretch their limbs, yet so heartwarming to watch them both SHARING something so willing with one another.

Me: “Shall we go and take your shower now?”
Dylan: “Don’t want. I want to shower with didi.”

Devan too looking forward to each shower session with his big brother, for his handsome little face tells it all.

Strawberry (With White Hair), Anyone?

2010-03-11T23:59:00.000+08:00

What would you do when you have a few strawberries with white hairs sticking out from them staring at you?

Freak out? Scream? Immediately dump them into the rubbish bin? Or study them?

It was the usual weekday afternoon and I was planning to get some strawberries out of the fridge for Dylan to munch on while I was preparing our dinner. But I guessed them decided to spice up my day with a little surprise. And, they sure did!

It took me a minute or two to collect myself after I saw what I saw, went off to get my camera, took a few pictures and carefully studied them before dumping them away.

Gosh, they sure look creepy aren’t them. But, at the same time, it’s amazing how on earth such teeny weeny organism can grow in such flowery pattern. Lots of tiny buds can be seemed clearly at the end of each and every strand of the ‘hair’.

There goes my whole box of strawberries bought 2 days ago.

Where is the quality check anyway?

Bloggers’ Symposium, Not-To-Be-Missed

2010-03-10T21:35:00.001+08:00

A big event is coming our way and do make sure you don’t miss it!

The first ever Bloggers’ Symposium, right here in Singapore! It’s organized by Nuffnang, and sponsored by Canon. Cool!

This will be an INTERACTIVE conference (on Photography and Blogging) where 6 guest speakers will to share their experiences and tips, and we the participants get to ask any related questions.

FIVE different workshops will be held in FIVE separate rooms, and FIVE different topics will be touched on.

And, the topics are:

PARENTING, Lifestyle, Food, Fashion (blogshop), Technology.

Now,

Are you a blogger? Do you take TONS of photographs?

If the answer is yes, this is one event you would not want to miss! You’ll get to meet up with lots of bloggers like yourself, with the passion in photography. But even if you don’t blog, yet loves to snap pictures of anything and everything, you’ll walk home with lots of useful tips and knowledge shared by the wonderful speakers.
So, are you going? Yes? You’ll have to register online (Click HERE) and sign up for the topic of your choice.

There are only 60 seats for each workshop topic, so hurry and register NOW! Yes, NOW!

Share this news with friends, anyone and everyone, so they can benefit from the workshop. And do drop me a mail if you’re going too ya? Would love to know you more in person, and most importantly – HAVE FUN together!

Plus, you stand a chance to win a Canon Powershot S90!

Simply by registering yourself online and attending the event, you could be the owner of the camera. AND, you can too take part in the Mini Photo Contest to have additional chance to win the camera.

Details of the contest, click HERE. To find out more about the event, its itinerary, click HERE.

Oh, did I mentioned this event is FREE? Yes, it's FREE. What are you waiting for??
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So, am I going? Of course! Without my boys though, a good opportunity for some ME time. But if you really have to bring your kid along or no one to help to babysit them, there’ll be a children movie screening next to the Parenting Workshop Room! Such a thoughtful gesture by the organizer really.

I’m excited about this! I know I’ll be getting better photographs after this event and posting them up on my blog to share with my family and friends. *grin*

I had registered, chosen the topic on PARENTING. This workshop will be conducted by our dear Leonny, whom I know and met through her blog – OurEveryDayThings.

Do check out her website and you’ll be amazed by her photographs (mainly of her 2 wonderful kids) and lots of inspiration and parenting tips too.

10 Ways to Instantly Build Self Confidence

2010-03-09T23:29:00.002+08:00

from Firekast

Self confidence is the difference between feeling unstoppable and feeling scared out of your wits. Your perception of yourself has an enormous impact on how others perceive you. Perception is reality — the more self confidence you have, the more likely it is you’ll succeed.

Although many of the factors affecting self confidence are beyond your control, there are a number of things you can consciously do to build self confidence. By using these 10 strategies you can get the mental edge you need to reach your potential.

1. Dress Sharp
Although clothes don’t make the man, they certainly affect the way he feels about himself. No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you are. When you don’t look good, it changes the way you carry yourself and interact with other people. Use this to your advantage by taking care of your personal appearance. In most cases, significant improvements can be made by bathing and shaving frequently, wearing clean clothes, and being cognizant of the latest styles.

This doesn’t mean you need to spend a lot on clothes. One great rule to follow is “spend twice as much, buy half as much”. Rather than buying a bunch of cheap clothes, buy half as many select, high quality items. In long run this decreases spending because expensive clothes wear out less easily and stay in style longer than cheap clothes. Buying less also helps reduce the clutter in your closet.

2. Walk Faster
One of the easiest ways to tell how a person feels about herself is to examine her walk. Is it slow? tired? painful? Or is it energetic and purposeful? People with confidence walk quickly. They have places to go, people to see, and important work to do. Even if you aren’t in a hurry, you can increase your self confidence by putting some pep in your step. Walking 25% faster will make to you look and feel more important.

3. Good Posture
Similarly, the way a person carries herself tells a story. People with slumped shoulders and lethargic movements display a lack of self confidence. They aren’t enthusiastic about what they’re doing and they don’t consider themselves important. By practicing good posture, you’ll automatically feel more confident. Stand up straight, keep your head up, and make eye contact. You’ll make a positive impression on others and instantly feel more alert and empowered.

4. Personal Commercial
One of the best ways to build confidence is listening to a motivational speech. Unfortunately, opportunities to listen to a great speaker are few and far between. You can fill this need by creating a personal commercial. Write a 30-60 second speech that highlights your strengths and goals. Then recite it in front of the mirror aloud (or inside your head if you prefer) whenever you need a confidence boost.

5. Gratitude
When you focus too much on what you want, the mind creates reasons why you can’t have it. This leads you to dwell on your weaknesses. The best way to avoid this is consciously focusing on gratitude. Set aside time each day to mentally list everything you have to be grateful for. Recall your past successes, unique skills, loving relationships, and positive momentum. You’ll be amazed how much you have going for you and be motivated to take that next step towards success.

6. Compliment other people
When we think negatively about ourselves, we often project that feeling on to others in the form of insults and gossip. To break this cycle of negativity, get in the habit of praising other people. Refuse to engage in backstabbing gossip and make an effort to compliment those around you. In the process, you’ll become well liked and build self confidence. By looking for the best in others, you indirectly bring out the best in yourself.

7. Sit in the front row
In schools, offices, and public assemblies around the world, people constantly strive to sit at the back of the room. Most people prefer the back because they’re afraid of being noticed. This reflects a lack of self confidence. By deciding to sit in the front row, you can get over this irrational fear and build your self confidence. You’ll also be more visible to the important people talking from the front of the room.

8. Speak up
During group discussions many people never speak up because they’re afraid that people will judge them for saying something stupid. This fear isn’t really justified. Generally, people are much more accepting than we imagine. In fact most people are dealing with the exact same fears. By making an effort to speak up at least once in every group discussion, you’ll become a better public speaker, more confident in your own thoughts, and recognized as a leader by your peers.

9. Work out
Along the same lines as personal appearance, physical fitness has a huge effect on self confidence. If you’re out of shape, you’ll feel insecure, unattractive, and less energetic. By working out, you improve your physcial appearance, energize yourself, and accomplish something positive. Having the discipline to work out not only makes you feel better, it creates positive momentum that you can build on the rest of the day.

10. Focus on contribution
Too often we get caught up in our own desires. We focus too much on ourselves and not enough on the needs of other people. If you stop thinking about yourself and concentrate on the contribution you’re making to the rest of the world, you won’t worry as much about you own flaws. This will increase self confidence and allow you to contribute with maximum efficiency. The more you contribute to the world the more you’ll be rewarded with personal success and recognition